I'm a SAHM and DH travels so I do pretty much all the things because it's just easier. However I do expect him to help me when I ask. And my boys do chores. Not for allowance, but because we all live here and contribute to the dishes, laundry, dirt. We do the cleaning together, so it feels like a team effort. 30 mins of cleaning and we're done. I sincerely hope they carry this forward in their own family lives.