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Posted by: anonymous
2019-03-21 17:10:34
ID: 59571
DH is mad at me because I told DD about the special food our neighbor is planning to make for us. She's an immigrant and makes food from her home country. DD's boyfriend is visiting the house today and DH is all pissed off because I mentioned the food to DD before I left for work today and now DH will have to share with DD and her BF. And he's actually really pissed. He was planning to hide the food from DD & her BF so that he and I could eat it all. And now he's pissed he's going to have to share. Here's the thing: he doesn't HAVE to share. He just knows he's a dick if he doesn't. So.... he's a dick, forced to share like a normal person, and pissed off at me about it. Jesus. I don't even want any now. He can have mine, the selfish prick. Then he can be pissed at me for 'being a martyr'. But I think in this instance, I'm okay with that. WHAT a selfish ass hole.
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Posted by: anonymous
2019-03-19 23:38:42
ID: 59558
My first husband was a real piece of.....work. He had a girlfriend while we were engaged, and never bothered to break up with her once we were married. The worst was that I made friends with a girl I worked with. She was at our apartment a lot, and never really paid much attention to H, nor he to her. Imagine my surprise when, six months later I came home early and found them in our bed. It'd been going on for five months. They were good actors! When I left she moved in, got pregnant, and he left her six months later. I am thankful EVERY day that I got away from that!
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Posted by: anonymous
2019-03-19 17:17:23
ID: 59555
In response to a confession. I had a friend like this too, she was so toxic. We don't talk anymore and it's such a relief to be rid of her!!
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Posted by: anonymous
2019-03-19 00:06:30
ID: 59549
There are six couples that go out to eat and just hang out regularly. There's one woman who's an airhead and has to be told time and time again how to play a game that we all play at least once a week. I have laughed at stupid jokes, explained the game twenty times, given directions to the restaurant we've been two a dozen times, and just tried to be a friend to everyone. Tonight I found out that the airhead invited the other four couples out to dinner and back to their house to play cards. I realize that we don't all have to get together at the same time, and there have been times when two or three couples got together instead of all of us. But for some reason I'm a little hurt to be left out tonight. PLEASE refrain from the hateful comments! Thanks
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Posted by: anonymous
2019-03-17 18:33:36
ID: 59523
In response to a confession. On the flip side, when my first marriage was going down like the Titianic, I called my close friend to vent and cry. For every thing I told her that was shitty about my dh, she came back with an example of what HER dh did for her. Ex., I said he didn't bring me flowers anymore, and she told me how her dh had just sent her flowers to her work. I told her how we never went on picnics by the lake anymore, so she told me about how her dh had just surprised her with a hot-air balloon ride followed by a picnic. I told her how he refused to rub my feet after I was on them all day (even though I gave HIM regular foot rubs) so she told me how her dh treats her to a spa day every month. So basically, people just suck all around lol
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Posted by: anonymous
2019-03-17 18:33:11
ID: 59522
Yeah. Who hasn’t texted when they knew they shouldn’t. I am in the same boat. He lets me text him.keeps me hanging on. I control myself for days or weeks and then break. I WISH he’d block me!! I beg him to.
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Posted by: anonymous
2019-03-17 18:32:17
ID: 59536
3/3 and he's seen as a straight-up guy, and I ruined their perception of him. No dude, they saw the REAL you, the one you hide from everyone. He was also saying (in front of them) that I don't make enough money. I left a high-paying job when I became a single mother and raised my child on my own for years. What a low blow. And earlier, one guy told me that dh told him I said I didn't want dh hanging out with him on work trips, because they drink too much together. I never even met this guy before, only heard his name in passing, and I NEVER said that. I'm SO sick of his drinking. Thankfully he's away a lot so I don't have to deal with it as much (unless he gets mad at me) but I can't take it anymore. I'm trying for my dream job, which is the first step toward leaving him. I just hope I can hang on.
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Posted by: anonymous
2019-03-17 18:31:50
ID: 59535
2/3 and then actually jerked the steering wheel to the left as I was driving. I unleashed on him. Full-on screaming to leave me alone as his colleagues are telling him to just let me drive. I get on the highway and eventually have to stop for gas. I pulled in and thought the pump was only diesel so I backed up to pull up to another one. Well it was diesel AND regular, so he started screaming that I was a stupid effing bitch. I can't even believe he said that, nor could his friends. I was so angry, I said, "Don't be shocked if I file for divorce." He jumps out to take a pic of the other pump, came back and said, "I'm sending you this picture to give to your divorce lawyer." We dropped the guys off and on the way home he was screaming about how I embarrassed him, at work everyone looks up to him CONT
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Posted by: anonymous
2019-03-17 18:31:32
ID: 59534
1/3 Two of dh's colleagues were working on a contract not far from us, so we went to pick them up and get lunch together. It turned into us then going into the city near them and bar hopping. We were having a great time until we got to the third place. DH was drinking a lot and started getting arrogant about the food, saying he's been to the country it was created in, so he knows how it should taste and it didn't taste like that. Ive been there too, and the food was fine. Then he got bitchy bc he wanted to get a hotel room and stay the night so we could hang longer. We couldn't bc the dog didn't have enough food/water for the night and no one to take him out on short notice. So he wanted to head back to the guys' hotel but continue drinking at the bar there, and I said no, you've had enough. So I'm driving us back to the hotel, and the GPS kept telling me to turn when the highway was straight ahead. DH was getting belligerent with me, kept yelling at me to turn CONT
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Posted by: anonymous
2019-03-17 00:53:36
ID: 59530
I also don't talk about my marriage on here because I inevitably get the "I would divorce him" or "Why don't you leave?" whenever I have a gripe about my DH. Truthfully, none of us are exactly peaches to live with all the time either. DH puts up with shit from me all the time, it's just that it's different than the shit I put up with from him. Marriage is just about finding someone with flaws you can actually tolerate. Of course people change, but sometimes it can make you a stronger couple to go through things together. Plus, all marriages are different. What works for some people doesn't work for someone else.
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