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Posted by: anonymous
2020-05-16 07:36:19
ID: 64214
About three years ago, SD and her family moved halfway across the country. Since they were driving, they asked us to store some of their things for them. DH has been asking them to make arrangements to get their stuff for quite some time. They've decided that now is the time. They're driving all the way here - with their kids! - to get it this weekend. DH says they're only spending one night and driving back the next night, but I see this possibly turning into a couple days' visit. I don't want ANYONE in my house right now, least of all them. It's a long story, but there's been nothing but drama with her and her H for as long as I've known them.
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Posted by: anonymous
2020-05-16 07:35:52
ID: 64218
I live in California. I was married for 27 years, been separated since 8/17, and filed for divorce last month. I moved out of the family home 6 months ago. DH doesn't want to pay me any alimony. We have over $10,000 of taxes we owe. I'm wondering if I should agree to not go after alimony and ask him to pay the taxes. The problem is, he wants me to pay half the taxes and he doesn't want to pay me any alimony at all. He makes double what I make. Thoughts?
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Posted by: anonymous
2020-05-16 07:27:23
ID: 64209
I understand some of the response posts that blow up. Like the one where the op was literally bragging about fucking other guys behind her dh's back. Well, duh. Of course that's going to cause a huge response. I'm just at a loss over kicking an abused woman when she's down, though. Wtf is wrong with people?
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Posted by: anonymous
2020-05-14 03:05:49
ID: 64244
My H gets irrationally angry when people don't do things the way he wants, or if he thinks he's right about something. Today we had to drop his car off at the dealer's. I'm driving out of the parking lot, and had to turn left, go up to the light and turn left again onto the main road home. Easy, right? Wrong. He wanted me to turn right and go the way he thinks is "easier." How much easier could it be than what I was doing?! He started an argument bc I didn't do it his way! So his DD and her husband are coming here from another state to pick up some of their possessions we've been holding onto. He told them which route to take. He's literally losing. his. mind. because they're taking a different route. But - if something is 100% A, but he THINKS it's B, he will fight to the frigging death that it's B. Even if you SHOW him that it's A. I can't take much more.
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Posted by: anonymous
2020-05-13 15:17:54
ID: 64231
I am just a glutton for punishment. Why do I still do this to myself? I'm a fucking middle aged woman. Why do I still pine away like a stupid teenager? He. Doesn't. Want. Me. Why can't I let it sink in? I know why. It's the mixed signals. Or, am I just misinterpreting everything and overthinking everything? Why do I still do this to myself?
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Posted by: anonymous
2020-05-12 23:20:55
ID: 64226
In response to a confession. Mine is clingy and does this stuff too. He's been away for work and is home now for a couple weeks. Jesus. I worked today and then came home to do some yard work. Afterwards I took a hot shower and laid down on the couch to take a nap. I forgot that if I so much as stretch, that's his cue to wake me up. Yep, he effing woke me up by moving excessively and talking to me. So now I'm trying to have a cup of tea and catch up with emails and such. He won't stop talking to me about what's on tv (even stupid commercials), and keeps getting up to come over and show me something on his phone. Then he asked me to look for something on Amazon. I did, but he doesn't want to look at it right now. argggggg
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Posted by: anonymous
2020-05-12 23:11:51
ID: 64224
I love my husband, but he's so clingy. I often feel smothered. I tell him this, but he doesn't slow down. I'm sure I'm more irritated because he's been home for 2 months and doesn't go back to work for a few more weeks. Once he goes back to work it'll get better. But right now I just want to breathe!!! If I go to the store, he calls me just to chat. If he goes to the store, he calls me just to chat. I'm going to bed soon just so I can have a break. Anyone want to borrow him for a few days? lol
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Posted by: anonymous
2020-05-12 19:01:34
ID: 64222
I feel like shit for masturbating, but my dh says he can't keep up with me and once a week is the most he can handle. I want it a few times a day at this point. I wish guys didn't lose their stamina so soon in life. I feel like maybe if he quit drinking so much, he might be able to get it up more? But I don't want to seem like a whiny bitch bc I'm not getting sex often enough to suit me. *sigh*
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Posted by: anonymous
2020-05-12 18:20:27
ID: 64220
In response to a confession. Tell your friend that she'd be better off with a metal bucket, but it may be noisy. Perhaps she should fill it with concrete first so that when she swings it at his head, it makes a more muffled THUD than a resounding BONG. Of course, before doing this, she should make sure that she has a few shower curtains handy for body disposal, a good location in mind, and some quicklime to hasten decomposition.
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Posted by: anonymous
2020-05-12 12:29:53
ID: 64217
So, you’re setting up to clean out the oven that you cleaned last night (self cleaning oven that DH said he’d clean when it cooled off, but he seems to have changed his mind). He watches you get a stool and a bucket full of vinegar water ready. Then he sits at the island for fifteen minutes bitching because it smells so bad. Question: Can a person be beat to death with a plastic bucket or should a metal one be used? Asking for a friend.
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