My H gets irrationally angry when people don't do things the way he wants, or if he thinks he's right about something. Today we had to drop his car off at the dealer's. I'm driving out of the parking lot, and had to turn left, go up to the light and turn left again onto the main road home. Easy, right? Wrong. He wanted me to turn right and go the way he thinks is "easier." How much easier could it be than what I was doing?! He started an argument bc I didn't do it his way! So his DD and her husband are coming here from another state to pick up some of their possessions we've been holding onto. He told them which route to take. He's literally losing. his. mind. because they're taking a different route. But - if something is 100% A, but he THINKS it's B, he will fight to the frigging death that it's B. Even if you SHOW him that it's A. I can't take much more.