I'm the OP that is having a really hard time letting go of her ex and had texted him recently. I'm a regular confessor from Truu, but remain anonymous because I'm ashamed by how long it's taken me to grieve. No, I have not written any of your scathing posts to play devil's advocate. I'm currently in treatment for major depression and already going through enough shit, thank you very much. I've had to stay away from this channel because of all the vitriol. Honestly, I've never felt so badly about something I thought I could confess to in a "safe" place as it has been for me. I'm saddened that people piled on and attacked me so quickly. You really don't know what person is going through unless you're in their shoes. Thanks from the bottom of my heart, to you OP below for sending me some gentle, compassion during this very difficult time. I'm crying because there is actually someone out there standing up for me and extending kindness. I don't know who you are, but I'm grateful for you.