I'm watching the series, The Affair, and I'm really liking it, but I'm so sick of most of the sex scenes. The man grabs the woman, shoves her against a tree, wall or counter, lifts her dress or undoes her pants and shoves his dick inside her, pounds away and cums. That's it, no foreplay, no lube, just wham bam. They portrait this over and over in this show with all different characters. Even in bed they never show the man taking his time to get the woman off, it's all about them. Thankfully this hasn't been my experience, for the most part, throughout my relationships, so it makes me angry to watch.