We can't ever go on vacation without guilt and drama from dh's family. We go anyway, but it's super annoying. A few years ago, DH mentioned to his mom that we were planning a trip to New Orleans. Next thing we know, the whole fam damnily, 15+ people, have planned a trip at the same time to the New Orleans time share and we're being guilted because we're not staying there with them. So, the next time, we went to Savannah and didn't tell a soul until afterwards, and OMG, the guilt trips we were sent on for not visiting his family in Atalanta. I have so many more examples, it's not even funny. Is it so bad that, when I'm on vacation, I want to stay in a hotel where I can screw my husband and visit new places, just the two of us, with no family involved? We can't even post gratuitous vacation photos on Facebook like normal people without 12 family members asking why we didn't invite them/visit them. Does anyone else's family do this? There's just no boundaries.