2 years ago, I asked my mom to please call before she comes over. Prior to that, she would just show up at any time and walk in. One night I caught her watching me and my H sleeping bc I had only called her once that day. So yeah, I set a boundary after entirely too long. Today, after TWO YEARS of fairly normal (for her) interactions, I get a call, voicemail, and text asking to "set an appointment" to come over to give me something. I'm so tired.