I'm kind of unorganized and a big procrastinator, which my friends know. Well, last year I just couldn't get it together to send a friend something I'd bought for her that I knew she wanted. Late last year, everyone in our friend group was traveling for another's surprise birthday party. She was going to be there, so I brought it with me. She ended up not being able to make it. I meant to send it, but had just started a stressful new job and it stayed in my glove compartment. Last weekend we had to drive to a family event in her city, so we were trying to meet up to see her and give her the gift. We didn't get a chance to see her (or any of our friends there) but she told us we could drop it at her work with a certain person, which we did. It's been a week, and she's said nothing, not even responded to my text asking if she got it. Friends for 30+ years.