I understand OP was frustrated and her DH probably deserved to be slapped. But why, why, WHY are people applauding her for slapping him when if the tables were turned, you would be screaming he's an abuser, leave him, call the cops! So damn sick of the double standards in this world. If SHE was being annoying he wouldn't be "allowed" to slap her. WTF is the difference? And don't give me that BS about how women are weaker. This is 2014. Women aren't some meek gender. A slap from someone with a vagina can hurt just as bad as a slap from someone with a penis.