Why do women stay with losers? Why? It drives me nuts. My cousin has been with her loser fiancee/boyfriend on and off now for eight years. He makes her insance. He cheats, lies and is lazy. She complains about him incessantly yet "LOVES" him and is "hoping he will grow up". Um, how about not waiting for some useless dillhole to grow up? WHy not start your life now? You're 36....maybe it's time to move on?