I guess being a good wife who has regularly has sex, tries to keep the house clean, works full time, cooks dinner, and keeps the children in line just isn't enough anymore. I also have to give up what little I have left of myself? You dont "get" why I like to read in my down time, so I'm supposed to swap that with TV watching. My figure isnt toned like it used to be, so I exhaust myself at the gym on my lunch break. My version of fun, going to museums or exhibits isn't enough for you. I have to find amusement in moronic, sometimes life altering, pranks that seem at best a waste of time and at worst life ruination. But that's okay. I'll do it, because 4yo special needs son would lose his development by at least 2 years if his life changes at all. I guess I'll spend the rest of my life being what you want and dreaming about the life I want.