Why is it that the things we wouldn't deal with in our friends we have to do for family? Basically, my brother calls me up to say he and his girlfriend will stop over for a weekend next week. I told him it was a bad time for him to come. We are getting ready for a move and cannot host them at our house. He goes to my dad and tells him I said no. My dad says he understands where I am coming from but you "have to do for family". Um no, I don't have to do squat for someone who never helps me in my life and has only succeeded in being a user and guilt-tripper. I said no and if my brother is going to be in the area, he knows where a hotel is. I will see him for lunch but right now with the move he cannot stay at my house and considering how he reacted when I said no I may reconsider if I even want him at my next house.I am not going to be a pushover. This kid has already took so much of my money and time while laying guilt trips I won't allow it any longer. Then my brother goes on facebook whining about how people who call themselves family never help one another. So happy I am leaving this state behind.