My body is mine and I have the right to protect it. I felt bad about slapping dh, but it was a total knee jerk reaction on my part. I do not like my breasts, butt or nipples rubbed or pinched when we're not in an intimate setting. I enjoy hugs, kisses, hand holding and cuddling, you know, affection, but nipple pinching or breast grabbing doesn't make me feel loved or wanted. It makes me feel degraded and gross. It's my body, I should be able to protect it without being called abusive. I would never grab or treat my dh's body like that. He knows that I respect his personal space because I've never infringed upon it. Obviously my threat to break his fingers was empty and didn't work. I apologized and he accepted and apologized in turn for his behavior. Yesterday we had a lovely day spending time around the house, making dinner together, we even stole upstairs to our bedroom to have some alone time while ds was engrossed in minecraft. I think so many people faved that OP because they too know the feeling of having your bodily autonomy trampled on by someone who is supposed to respect and love us and it's not a nice feeling.