Stream Of Consciousness
Posted by: anonymous
2014-04-28 15:07:27
ID: 3052
I tend to question the integrity of those who misplace their anger so easily.
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Posted by: anonymous
2014-04-28 03:30:03
ID: 3043
Recovering from this neck lift has been a bitch. Not a whole lot of pain after 5 days but the tightness, swelling, and lack of mobility have been difficult to deal with.
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Posted by: anonymous
2014-04-27 22:14:48
ID: 3038
DH's parents suck. They are local, always say they want to see the grandkids, etc. but either never respond to invites or don't show up to events. However, I keep all evidence that I asked (always by text or email) so when they bitch and moan they don't see the kids, I have proof they were in fact invited and they can't lie to DH. I wish we could just cut them off.
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Posted by: anonymous
2014-04-27 21:32:20
ID: 3037
I broke up with my bff, she just wasn't i expected in a friendship. It was all about her and i felt as though i needed to make up for her ruined past from others. She was emotionally exhausting. I'm not a therapist. I was a friend. Sorry you had to let you go MD, but I just couldn't invest myself into and get nothing in return except judgment in my parenting and relationships. It was toxic-I had to go.
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Posted by: anonymous
2014-04-27 16:45:18
ID: 3032
I'm hoping a bartender or lawyer, or someone with some experience can help me with this. On an out of state trip, I ended up telling my BF that I didn't think we were going to work out. I left the suite to go to dinner, I came back and saw him on the elevator. He had obviously been drinking. I got him to come back to the suite with me since I got him some food too. He said he wanted to go back to the bar to drink, I tried to plead with him not to go because he was already impaired. If he drank more, I knew he was going to end up being very mean. A few hours later, he comes back and is in my face, saying mean things. I get up to try to leave, he shoves me on the floor and slaps me around. He proceeded to beat me for about 30 minutes (according to the neighbors who heard me screaming for help and did nothing until I was able to fight my way out & saw them in the hallway so I ran in their room). I can barely move, I'm bruised from head to toe. I refused EMS services because I just wanted to pack up and drive home. When was the bartender supposed to stop serving him? I heard somewhere that if a drunk harms someone after leaving the bar, the bar/bartender is liable. The bar was new, it had only been open 3 nights. It's a bar that is inside of the resort we were staying at. My ex is in jail, I go to court in 2wks. Any information will help, I plan on calling a lawyer tomorrow.
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Posted by: anonymous
2014-04-27 15:26:15
ID: 3021
The effect of stress on the body is an amazing thing. I have an autoimmune disease and when I am stressed it flares up in response right away. It's almost immediate. Other things make it flare but stress is a major problem. I wish I could make my DH understand that I take on what I need and pushing tons of extra stuff on me that I can't handle causes stress which in turn makes me flare, which causes more stress. I take care of the kids, house, animals and chores the best I can. The house is clean, food cooked, laundry done. But I can't do everything and I can't run myself ragged to meet extra demands. I am not going to work myself to death. I need to take care of myself before I end up back on medication.
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Posted by: anonymous
2014-04-27 14:31:25
ID: 3019
I spend all weekend counting the hours until all these people go back to school and/or work.
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Posted by: anonymous
2014-04-27 11:43:48
ID: 3018
My *younger*brothers mentioned how my fiance should have came to them to ask MY hand in marriage. I laughed my ass off because not only am I older than them and have gone through college and have a job but my dad didn't even get asked to have my hand in marriage. My fiance asked me and then we went to my dad to get a blessing and a mug of beer. I don't understand why two immature boys would mention that someone should go ask for their sister's hand. I just turned around and said "No, my fiance and I went to the MAN of this family. Not the two little boys who could barely hold a job and still live with mommy." The moment they try to pull any crap on me because they are "men" I just remind them that I hold more respect in the family for doing the things that I do and not for some assigned gender.
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Posted by: anonymous
2014-04-27 05:20:54
ID: 3016
I just got off the phone with my so-called friend. My husband and I are going on a trip and I was so excited. My friend just gets quiet and says "That's so great that everything is happening for you but I don't think you deserve it." I got really quiet and asked her why and she said "Well, look at you! You are fat! It seems weird to think that someone like you will be going to Paris."Ow. Ow, really bad.
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Posted by: anonymous
2014-04-27 01:35:55
ID: 3013
I have been trying to get confidence by into myself. It is hard when a relative constantly puts me down or makes me feel weird for not liking the same gaudy but expensive jewelry as her. I work out on my own at home and get bashed on by her for not going to the gym or putting up my weight loss before or after pictures online (why would I do that? People knew I used to be really overweight so what is the point of putting up bad pictures of myself compared to how I look now?). I have been finding my own style but I am sick of her comparing it to hers. I don't wear the things she does because I prefer my own look. Whenever I finally stick up for myself she just says that I am "threatened" by her. I am not, I am just sick and tired of being put down for not fitting her standards. I don't wear as much make up as her because I tend to get skin problems, I don't straighten my hair out because I have wavy hair that I like (when its tamed) and I don't wear expensive clothes because I am trying to save money and I like the outfits to look simple so I can dress it up or down with jewelry or scarves. I am the opposite of her but I am just sick of being put down when she tries to compare us.
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