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Posted by: anonymous
2014-06-07 15:20:59
ID: 5093
The rain is going to be done by noon/noonish! Thank goddess! I was having some strong anxiety over the weather. I would still have my party and we have a tent and gazebo like thing to avoid the rain, but it wouldn't be the same. We'll have to spray the grass again, this rain is going to bring out the state bird in droves.
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Posted by: anonymous
2014-06-07 14:45:50
ID: 5092
Sometimes spouses refuse to listen or they discount information that their spouse is unhappy. Head in the sand. Then they're so surprised when it's over. Really? When you've refused counseling for years? When we spend all our time in different rooms in our house? When you refuse to go to functions with me? When I've told you I miss your companionship? What did you think would happen, you idiot? If you're not going to live my life alongside me, then I'll live it alone. Staying with you is too much trouble for what I'm getting out of it. Buh-bye. More people should feel this way.
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Posted by: anonymous
2014-06-07 14:14:18
ID: 5089
I knew a guy who had "emotional affairs." They didn't always stay emotional. The way he did it was bring the couples together a lot - vacation together, eating out. His wife always pretended (or maybe believed, since he was SUCH a nice guy, a good Christian, and a community leader) that they were just friendships. Meantime he was buying these ladies little gifts, sending them admiring notes, taking them to visit friends when they couldn't afford to go themselves, joining clubs they belonged to, etc. He integrated them into his life and unless you really KNEW, and read the looks between him and his lady friends, you wouldn't KNOW, only suspect. He tried to make me one of them. Brought me home from a meeting at night and kissed me passionately. It was weird from this so-called friend and buddy of my H. Glad we moved shortly after that because it was awkward.
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Posted by: anonymous
2014-06-07 14:01:17
ID: 5087
SIL, Mr. O is clearly an idiot. Never negotiate with terrorists. It puts all of us at risk, especially with 5 former Guantanamo prisoners loose. Oh, but they have to stay in Qatar for a whole year! That sure sets our minds at ease. How are all of you who advocate closing down Guatanomo going to feel when these Middle East hotheads succeed in attacking the US again? Killing your family, maybe?
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Posted by: anonymous
2014-06-07 13:41:51
ID: 5086
I used to enjoy taking my kids to the pool so much more when I didn't really know people in our town. Now I've met other moms, they do swim lessons so I know the lifeguards too. I don't want people who "know" me to see me in a swim suit. So stupid and yes, I suck it up and go anyway.
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Posted by: anonymous
2014-06-07 12:23:53
ID: 5084
If I had some money handed to me I'd most likely buy groceries. I know, it sounds so boring! But I honestly get excited if I have some "extra" money to buy scallops or crabs with!
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Posted by: anonymous
2014-06-07 12:19:27
ID: 5082
I had a very high paying job for about 5 years and hated it the entire time. I tried to be grateful for the fact that (1) I had a job in such a bad economy and (2) that it paid so well. But fact is, it's so draining to spend 45-50 hours per week doing something you loathe. After 5 years I was finally able to find a new job through networking. I took a pretty big pay cut but it was worth it. I don't hate my job anymore. To the OP who is hating her job, I feel ya! Just keep thinking positive, keep your networks strong and avenues open. I hope you find something you like better down the road.
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Posted by: anonymous
2014-06-07 05:34:30
ID: 5053
I was scammed by an ex boyfriend. He took my favorite tshirt and my expensive Maglite that I had for many years that actually saved my life once since I used it to fight off a rabid dog. Very sentimental items. I also had to pay a cell bill of $800 too. He fucked like a rabbit too. I don't know what I was thinking. I sooo regret it soo soo much! I know it's mainly my fault, but I know that's what he did with all other women, just scamming them for shit. ugh. I'm so embarrassed still.
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Posted by: anonymous
2014-06-07 05:15:15
ID: 5080
You deserve better than the husband that is cheating on you. I bet he'd continue his cheating if you didn't find out. I also wonder if he's going to go to extremes now to hide his infidelity now that you know about his affair. You did nothing wrong, please don't blame yourself and don't let him blame you either. Big hugs to you.
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Posted by: anonymous
2014-06-07 01:07:04
ID: 5071
If your DH gave you $100 and told you to blow it on yourself, what would you buy?
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