OP who was kicked out of the a cappella group. They not only hurt me, but they lied to me and fat shamed me. I was told by the leaders of the group that I was a gorgeous big woman and that I needed to "show that off." I was told I had a beautiful face and "not to hide it." However, in the same vein, I was also told I needed to wear black because it was "slimming." The night I was kicked out, I was told I was too fat to learn the dance steps (not true - I was told I needed to learn dance steps FOUR DAYS before the show! You try to learn dance moves within that time and get them correct!), and not good from a "marketing and business aspect" in the long run. I know that they are all friends and family, so I was the outsider and was treated as such. I also found out that because I hate Disney, didn't watch "The Sing Off," and didn't watch mainstream movies that these were considered "strikes" against me. Seriously? Who does that?! I hope like hell karma comes back to get them in the form of greater loss, hurt, and pain, because I NEVER did anything to deserve this kind of treatment. I tried so hard and gave above and beyond my best to these people, for almost 2 months, and they pulled the rug out from under me, yet, they expected me to remain friends with them. BULLSHIT! You don't get to hurt me and have me waste my time, talent, and money and expect me to pretend everything is OKAY. And for my so-called F"friends" who are tired of hearing me talk about it, FUCK YOU. It didn't happen to you! You didn't go through it, so, I will continue to talk about it until I'm over it!