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Posted by: anonymous
2014-05-12 16:03:39
ID: 3725
I think I'm codependent. I was doing some research on the subject and DH found out by going through the history on the computer. He was really upset because if I'm codependent then that implies that there might be something wrong with him. I don't know what to do. There is something wrong with him. He won't get a job. He uses me, I support him financially and he will not get a job. Even when he did have a job, he refused to contribute toward bills. It's so complicated, I don't even know what to do or where to start. I have to try to fix this on my own, in secret. So he doesn't get upset. Yep, go ahead and tell me how stupid I am for letting this happen. That will be really helpful. Like I haven't been reading myself that same riot act for years. I need to understand codependency.
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Posted by: gabatik
2014-05-12 15:46:11
ID: 3724
Yeesh, looks like I missed a few meltdowns over the weekend.
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Posted by: anonymous
2014-05-12 15:31:15
ID: 3721
Why keep posting about it if you "don't care" what others think of you? Tbh you both sound obnoxious.
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Posted by: anonymous
2014-05-12 14:56:10
ID: 3720
This place is full of the rudest people I've never met...I'm off.
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Posted by: anonymous
2014-05-12 14:55:37
ID: 3719
I freak out when I feel verbally attacked or physically threatened. I literally break down and cry...it means I can't stand up for myself in arguments and literally have panic attacks when I feel someone is being verbally or physically aggressive to me. It's due to being beaten up by an adult (non family member) when I was a child, It's actually really delibitating...I worry if someone ever tried to mug me or rape me I wouldn't be able to defend myself. I wish I knew how to get over it. I tried taking martial arts classes once, but even when it came to sparring, I would just spend all my energy trying to protect myself from attacks than attack back...it seems almost instinctual. I hate it.
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Posted by: anonymous
2014-05-12 14:46:23
ID: 3717
$30-$65 a person?! No way. The place we had our brunch was $13 per adult and $7 per child. It's an event space that serves brunch every Sunday and rents out for special events the rest of the week.
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Posted by: anonymous
2014-05-12 14:13:14
ID: 3714
I don't understand the trend of these pricy mothers day brunches and buffets. The ones I've seen range from $30-$65 a person. Ha, no thanks. My mom would be more than happy with Waffle House or Cracker Barrel and a cheap bottle of wine or Happy Hour somewhere. Yes, I'm aware they're pricy because there is a good food selection, lobster, etc. But I doubt you get $60 worth...plus you're just gonna poop it out in a few hours lol. But whatever floats your boat.
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Posted by: anonymous
2014-05-12 12:20:38
ID: 3712
My friend was and is the problem. One of her friends was raped. She made the comment "She wanted to stop at a gas station in the ghetto. No wonder she was raped". Then she brought one of her other friends along on double dates as a "joke" because she isn't attractive. I called her hunchback because yep, she has a hunch in her back from trying to look shorter. She thinks and acts like she is the most gorgeous girl in the world but she is obviously so insecure. She refused to stand up straight in her wedding photos because Heaven forbid she be taller than her husband. Yes, I am a bitch. But nobody (besides her mom, her [obviously gay] husband, and her two friends [ugly duckling and rape victim]) like her. I quit speaking to her for a reason. My parents don't like her. Her classmates didn't like her. My fiancé and friends and co-workers don't like her. I'm a bitch but I'm considered one because I'm blunt. I'm not a vain bitch who brings friends along on double dates as a joke because they're ugly. I don't make remarks about friends being raped. That is another level of C U Next Tuesday. I am sorry I offended by the term hunchback. It was not my intention. Idc what strangers think of me so if you think I'm a nasty person, that's all you. Because you don't actually know me. Okay, done talking about it now ;)
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Posted by: anonymous
2014-05-12 12:11:32
ID: 3706
My mother's health makes me motivated to take care of my own. You can tell she has never, ever worked out with weights or spent any time doing anything weight bearing in her life. Her arms are the size of my legs. I am built like her and carry extra weight in the same places. I don't want this for me.
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Posted by: anonymous
2014-05-12 12:08:17
ID: 3704
Went to a popular restaurant for Mother's Day brunch buffet. Made reservations so we walked right in to our table. There were people waiting out the door and they were pretty upset that we were getting seated first. It's Mother's Day at one of the most popular places to eat in town-you need to think ahead people!
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