I didn't think I was being unreasobable, but I guess I just ask too much. I agreed to no more babies (we only have 1 child),and I take care of dhs two inside dogs even though I'm allergic. I work, too. When dh asked me what I want for mothers day, I replied an adult cat from the local shelter. We have a few outside cats, but they can't be caught or domesticated, so we just feed them and let them be. He flips out saying my that I can't have an inside cat... It's not like I'm asking for a new car or a baby or something drastic. Ugh. Whatever.