I'm going to a bachelorette party weekend, and we're road-tripping to get there. I was just informed that to save on cost were driving up together and sharing a suite. Apparently, my car was volunteered for this trip, but I don't mind. I mentioned ahead of time, that I wanted the bunk bed so I could sleep alone. Many of the girls in the wedding party are bigger, 300+ pounds. The biggest girl is about 400+ pounds. I am 115 pounds. For that reason, they expect me to ride 4 hours in the middle back seat of MY OWN CAR!!! I was also told that I should share a bed with the 400 pound girl, because I won't take up that much space, and it may hurt her feelings. I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings, so how do I nicely say this shit aint gonna fly? I want to be a good bridesmaid, but damn, its a full...I don't wanna get crushed, and I sure as shit don't wanna sit in the back middle seat.