Multi-part/long story- If I had a falling out with my childhood friend over ten years ago and haven't spoken to her, for very good reasons, why do I feel guilty for not donating to a Go Fund Me for her? This is a family friend that I grew up with. We spent all our holidays together. However, her mother was not a great friend to my mother, it was always a one-way street, and after repeatedly bailing her out financially my mom eventually cut her off, because she was so rude, ungrateful, and unsupportive in every way. When my childhood friend showed up at my mother's funeral and hugged me it felt so wrong. When she called to offer her condolences, I told her that if she wanted to be a good friend for once, she could tell her mom that she was a shitty friend to my mom, and I hung up on her. I haven't spoken to her since