Recently decided to start focusing more on myself and my family. Have spent my whole life catering to my mom, spending every spare moment talking to her, talking her down out of her moods, etc. 60 years and she has never had to grow up. She still acts like a child. Wasted 29 years of my life enabling her. Now she is texting me every day, screaming for forgiveness, wanting more chances, im terrible for cutting her off, etc. Keep in mind, i just backed away. We still see her, talk to her, etc. Just less. She doesnt listen to me. I dont know how to get my point across non-offensively.