This is my FIL. He's not a bad person, but wet-blanket is a good description. I really feel for my MIL. She raised her 3 kids, but she still has him, which is basically a 4th kid that will never going to leave home. She deserves a break. Honestly, I think if she new he was going to live this long (he has a host of heath problems), she would have divorced him a long time ago. Now she won't because she does't want to burden her kids with him, because he would end up with one of them.