We built a really nice porch, put in a little fountain that makes a soothing water sound, I'm working on a pretty flower garden, splurged on comfy furniture to make it a peaceful spot and... my H installed a TV. So now there is no quiet anywhere. Kids inside, H blaring TV outside (sorry neighbors), and I'm just stuck inbetween. He comes home, sits on the porch and turns on the TV. Doesn't come in for supper, usually falls asleep out there. I'm just like... I wanted a space too, but we can't even share this one. And now the kids get even less of his attention than before. I get he was raised differently, but that really isn't an excuse.