Dh has been calling me a SAHM lately. I wouldn't mind if that's what I was... But I'm not. I'm a working mom who has had her job ruined by his selfishness. We have 1 car and he refuses to let me drive it. He has appointments, though they have vans and drivers at the place he reports to work to drive him to them. I should just have to drop him off and pick him up and then be able to drive myself to work, and ds to daycare in between. But no, the times I've tried he finds excuses for me to be driving him around all day. And we can't really afford for me to work less than I was. It was only part time, but it kept us from going completely broke. Right now I'm working 1 day a week anywhere between 4 and 8 hours. I enjoy spending time with my child and am grateful that I can do so without us going hungry, but we can't afford to build a savings now, if some big repair needs to be done on the car tomorrow we'll have to pick other bills to not pay this month. I am not a SAHM. I am someone dying to go to work...