I remember leaning into the car window of a friend when I was 12, at the local 'hangout' parking lot. As I was talking to him, I heard "That ain't no 12yo ass!" ... I turned around and it was one of our buyers that said it. Buyers, as in... old enough to buy alcohol, and willing to buy it for 12yo kids. And the guy wasn't just old enough to buy alcohol, he was in his 30's. I've been groped and harassed so many times I can't remember, it's something that happened so often I didn't even think it was a big deal and didn't bother to keep track. Last time I went to a bar to go out partying, I was 37 years old and I got my ass grabbed right in front of my (now) husband. Being touched without consent is just something that has happened to me my whole life.