I like my dh like a roommate. We never have sex, any other physical affection, and he is emotionally unavailable. He's perfectly fine with this arrangement but I'm not. He always says he will change and he's sorry, blah blah, but has done nothing. We get along fine (because he doesn't fight either, just shuts down). We have kis, he makes dinner every night, and we watch our TV shows. I think I just need more out of a relationship. I'm not miserable so I can deal with it now, but once our 2 preteen kids are grown, I'm ready to move on.