I'm CF. My first husband and I argued about him lying, cheating, etc. He was just an asshole. With my second husband, life is pretty darn good. We rarely argue. Sometimes we bicker over petty things, but we communicate well about the big stuff (money, home repairs, family stress, etc), and it eliminates a lot of our conflicts. It's hard to tell how much conflict kids would add to my marriage. Probably a lot, I imagine.