IL's cont'd: They have a habit of saying they'll do something then changing it without thinking how it may affect anyone else. Like they'll say they'll be here be here at 4:00, so we'll plan and make dinner accordingly. Then they'll call at 4:00 and say they decided to leave later and think they are doing us a favor since "now you don't have to make dinner." Well, we already bought all the shit and made half of it, so no, you didn't save us any time, you just wasted a bunch of it. So they didn't want to bother us this morning when they decided to leave 2 hours earlier than they said they were going to. Well, we already woke up early (for nothing) and you ended up rooting through all of our shit and taking all of our food. Thanks for not bothering us! BTW, they live 3 hours away, so it's not like we can just tell them that we already made dinner or whatever and to come at their originally planned time. And they'll be here for Christmas.