I'm 48 and have a first cousin who is 31. We live in different states now but are still very close. I talk to her all the time. Since the day she turned 30, people have been asking her when she's going to get married. Worse yet, they ask ME when she's going to get married. It's family, family friends, etc. They say she's so pretty (she really is beautiful), she should have no problem finding a husband, yada, yada. Jesus F. Christ! Maybe she doesn't want to get married!! Hell, if I had to do it all over again, I don't know that I would get married. And I bet half the people asking would say the same thing. It's not even a cultural thing with us. Do all umarried 30-something women deal with this shit? She's successful, has a job she loves, and is financially secure. I say good for her for not getting married if she doesn't want to.