My DH is always telling me to leave him bc he isn't good enough for me. And I'm like--- well, I like you. I'm comfortable with you. I like our dynamic, and I do think we love each other. Sure, I might could find someone that shares interests with me, or you could, but that's about it. Just because we don't have anything in common doesn't mean we aren't meant to be. If you don't want to stay with me, then you leave. As far as I know, we're both happy and our kids are happy, so why give that up for anything? I think we have more than we could hope for, and I don't understand why he keeps bringing it up. We've been married a long time, we have been through a lot. We learned how to grow up together, how to be parents, how to be ourselves, and we've worked past a lot of childhood trauma together too.