I'm confused as to whether or not I'm in the wrong. I don't spend money excessively in my opinion. DH claims I need to be more thrifty than I already am because he's not earning much money now. We have very low expenses and I have a good job and feel like he wants us to basically not spend any money at all. I mean, come on, LIFE costs money. We have to pay for food, we have to pay for bills, we have to pay for internet, we have to pay for gas, etc. I know he's stressed about his job situation but we aren't even dipping into our emergency funds or anything. I think he's overly worried about it because he grew up really poor but I don't think I'm being selfish if I buy myself small treats here and there and spend more on groceries so we don't have to eat out at restaurants and such.