Posted by: anonymous

2020-08-23 22:03:58

ID: 65280

My dh is having some late night anxiety, but he can't figure out the source. I have always had severe anxiety/manic depressive episodes, but due to my childhood emotional trauma I've been really good at blocking it and identifying and avoiding my triggers. I don't really know how to help him. Any tips?

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Posted by: Stormyweather

2020-08-23 18:05:32

ID: 65275

Stop hinting. Just say no, that isn't going to work for you. Allow her what is acceptable for you, a phone call or whatever. This person can't monopolize you if you dont allow it. The "I'm too nice" part is just you not sticking up for yourself. Try it, it gets easier and more satisfying with practice.

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Posted by: anonymous

2020-08-23 05:52:30

ID: 65119

I think accent nails are stupid. There, I said it.

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Posted by: anonymous

2020-08-23 05:49:59

ID: 65164

I KNOW he does this because I talk to my neighbors. Duh. He shows them the property, shows them the garage, tells them what a great deal they're getting, and then they sign the lease. 30 days later, after the lease can no longer be changed, he shows them the fine print about charging them more for the garage. He's done this to multiple tenants. I think he's getting away with it because his rentals on Zillow don't list the garage as a feature (which has now changed because I reported them all). It's shady as hell. The guy is a straight up asshole who is screwing people over after making a verbal contact with them about the garage. At least all his rentals on Zillow now state the properties have garages and I took screen shots in case any of my future neighbors need to dispute it. Fuck this guy and all landlords like him.

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Posted by: anonymous

2020-08-23 05:48:50

ID: 65234

Ugh I have a relative who's an insistent talker. Not only that, she will talk about every problem or ailment she's ever had or thinks she has. She's draining to be around and I feel sick at the idea of having to spend any time with her. Unfortunately, with the pandemic and getting out less, she's even more starved for an audience than usual. She wants to facetime with me "for my birthday". Can't think of a gift I'd like LESS. I keep putting her off but she doesn't get the hint. Trouble is, I'm too nice and too good of a listener so she targets me. Advice?

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Posted by: anonymous

2020-08-23 05:48:15

ID: 65231

NoMoreSecrets, "Every single boomer I know." I didn't say every boomer ever, so no it doesn't qualify as irony. I'm well aware #notallboomers and there's loads of awesome ones out there (I'm hoping all the ones protesting in the 60s haven't forgotten), I'm honestly tired of the shitty attitude every generation takes with each other.

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Posted by: anonymous

2020-08-23 05:47:10

ID: 65235

I bought a nice air mattress so we can use it in our guest room. We've had an old memory foam mattress in there, shoved in the closet, for like two years. Big-ass closet that I've never been able to use because the bed was in there. I use the room itself for yoga, and for the grandbaby when she comes over. I'm SO stoked to finally get rid of that old memory foam and actually be able to use the closet, yet still have a guest bed when we need it. Ideally, I'd like a murphy bed but holy shit are they expensive. I'm disproportionately excited about all this. I feel like I'm finally getting my shit together. LOL.

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Posted by: anonymous

2020-08-23 05:45:24

ID: 65212

I wonder if the owner of this site would be willing to sell it to someone with more time to run it. I don't mean to be critical about the owner/mod. I just wish someone with more time and motivation would take over, so it would be updated, moderated, etc.

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Posted by: anonymous

2020-08-23 05:42:46

ID: 65246

I am Transgender, and It is hard to just be that in a place that thinks its a bad thing. But that is not what is going wrong. The thing that is getting me a little anger is that for one thing. I have been trying to make some money by selling pics online and it's not working at all, Yeah I am not one of those Transgender people in Porn! I am not Skinny, and not pretty or sexy, but it is not easy trying to find a job with no one is hiring. Like All I need is to make some damn money to get teeth implants cause all of mine are fucked up, and then use some more money to try and get HRT (Hormone Replacement Therapy) But hell here I am trying to sell stuff but can't. Ugh...

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Posted by: anonymous

2020-08-22 23:46:09

ID: 65263

Covid, George Floyd, heatwave, blackouts, lightning thunderstorms and now the worst wildfires here in CA. Wow, 2020 is not even over...

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