I hate it when people ask me why I'm cf. It's such a personal question and I usually just mumble something about not wanting to raise a kid. The truth is that I wouldn't mind having a kid, but I've spent most of my adulthood recovering from my childhood. My own mother was cruel, abusive, and prone to fits of rage. I'd kill myself if I ever treated anyone, let alone my own child, the way she treated me. But "my mother is psycho" isn't really an appropriate response when I'm asked about being cf. I just wish people would mind their own business.