Same. My company is always doing things like Happy Hour, celebrations at the office after work or other activities (most recent was hatchet-throwing). Thankfully I can bow out of those, but not those with our team of 7. There's breakfasts and lunches, which are thankfully during work hours, but it takes away from my work and then I get behind. Then there's after-hours things like cocktails, bowling or skating. I'm not overly fond of anyone on my team - seeing everyone at our Monday afternoon meeting is enough for me. Not to mention, I don't get home from these things until almost 9PM. I'd much rather get home to my family, pets and couch.