At the beginning of the next meeting with the aides we will review meeting norms- 1. Assume positive intent 2. One voice at a time 3. What is said in the meeting stays in the meeting. That is all I plan to say to them on this subject. I can handle this teacher. I already have a meeting planned with higher ups where we are going to review professional roles, legal obligations, and best practices. When the teacher starts talking shit about me behind my back, which she inevitably will, I will ignore it. That's nothing new. I am disappointed that the aide is disloyal, but now I know. I'm not going to say a word about it to anyone else, because gossiping is not my style. These people are only making themselves look bad. My work speaks for itself.