I'm helping to manage social media for my organization, along with one other woman, "Susan". There is a man who I know she refuses to deal with, let's call him "Bill". Now that I'm helping, "Bill" has started submitting things to me, demanding to know when they will be posted, and trying to micromanage me down to the smallest detail, except he's not my manager. "Susan" has refused to deal with him for a long time and told him that all requests need to go to our higher up, "Ted." I don't want to be rescued by "Ted," so I checked in with him today, told him what was up, and that I was going to set firm limits with Bill the next time he tries it with me. If he doesn't accept those limits I'm going to refer him to Ted and wash my hands of it. I don't think Bill would treat me this way if I was a man, and I also have a feeling he is not going to respect my limits. So sick of this already. Bill has always been like this, with everything. God, grant me the confidence of a mediocre white dude!