Advice needed. I've worked with a woman for a long time and consider her a friend. She is gay, which has literally never been an issue ever, until recently. She's started sending me really inappropriate memes over FB messenger. They're all jokes about oral sex. One said something like " the best and worst parts of dating me are my mouth." Most of them are more vulgar than that, though. This has been going on for about 2 months. If this were a man, it would be super inappropriate and immediately labeled sexual harassment, right? I don't normally respond to her, but last night, after receiving 2 messages, I sent back "GROSS." She laughed it off and said she's only joking around. Am I overreacting? Like I said, if this were a man, it would not be okay, at all.