I respectfully disagree with you 100%. I'm polite, friendly, and set boundaries like mf. These people aren't my friends, they are my coworkers. I have a great working relationship with everyone, but they know I won't go out with them, attend their baby showers, or friend them on social media. We work together. That's it. Tall fences make good neighbors. I'm almost 40 and it took me this long to figure it out. I watch all the "friends" at work deal with all this drama, and here I am, working, minding my own business, not bothered at all.