Posted by: anonymous
2021-07-24 03:18:42
ID: 67488
Do you have any good news from the past week? I would love to hear it! Mine is I saw one of my dear friends today and we went to the zoo!
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Posted by: anonymous
2021-07-23 04:17:58
ID: 67486
In response to a confession. We had our second phone call today and it went way over. We laughed, made jokes and affirmed that we both are enjoying being in each other's lives and have been really surprised by the connections made. It feels very genuine honest, open, and exploratory. A tiny voice in the back of my head wonders if it's too good to be true? Am I getting too attached to him or is this healthy? Hard when I've only had unhealthy examples in my life, but I'll trust and listen to my gut.
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Posted by: anonymous
2021-07-23 02:15:53
ID: 67482
I woke up today with a huge sense of relief. Maybe this blowout needed to happen since I felt like our values weren't aligning anymore and it was not the friendship I needed. I have more space for my real friends - the loving, honest, empathetic, playful, and compassionate ones.
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Posted by: anonymous
2021-07-21 23:41:58
ID: 67473
I knew I had to end it when she started assassinating my character. I never once called a name and she started gas lighting. I won't stand for someone this unstable and unsafe, but wow, it became really vicious in a quick moment.
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Posted by: anonymous
2021-07-20 08:21:54
ID: 67465
In response to a confession. I know he sounds like a hoarder. He definitely has those tendencies. He did a good job of making some room down there but I don't think he got rid of anything. I ordered two sets of shelves to start really organizing. I'm going to get big Sterilite bins and start getting stuff up off the ground, put things in some kind of logical order. I'm going to get rid of stuff. Period. I opened a drawer and it was full of random crap. I am going to show him the drawer and ask him what he wants to keep. I don't know where I read this, but I liked it- if you look at something you are on the fence about, ask yourself if you would buy it for $10. If the answer is no, get rid of it!
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Posted by: anonymous
2021-07-19 22:23:43
ID: 67462
In response to a confession. He sounds like a hoarder.
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Posted by: anonymous
2021-07-19 16:04:32
ID: 67460
One of my dearest friends just got engaged. I know she really wanted that, so I am doing my best to be happy for her. But her future husband is an arrogant ass, and I am not looking forward to seeing him for the rest of our lives. And yes, she recognizes that he is an arrogant ass, but she really want to be married before she turns 50, and feels like this is her last chance. I think we are going to see a lot of this coming out of the pandemic. Many single people suffered living alone, and I think this is going to make them more vulnerable to settling for a spouse because they think that will be better than what they just went through. But as a (single) friend of mine said last year - the only thing worse than isolating by yourself is isolating with someone you don't want to be around.
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Posted by: anonymous
2021-07-19 03:17:54
ID: 67456
Basement Cleanout Rant Pt 2- Why is the tool bench covered with books? Why is the Christmas tree stand outside? Why aren't the tent, the sleeping bags, and the cooler in ONE PLACE? Why aren't any of the boxes labeled? I am sorting things on the patio because there is no room to move down there. He says we can't leave things out there over night. If he put this crap back down in the basement, I am going to murder him, LOL
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Posted by: anonymous
2021-07-19 03:12:22
ID: 67455
Relationship Rant- Cleaning out the basement! I do my best to keep our home organized. I tidy the cupboards, clean out the closet, and do my best to store things in a logical way with shelves, bins, and baskets. I just cleaned out my bathroom, clothes closet, linen closet, and drawers. I've been telling my husband I'd like to tackle the basement, which his kind of his territory and is not organized in any way. He keeps saying he will do it. Well, I've been telling him that I am going to do it myself. I found things in there that I just got rid of! You can't get to anything. There are magazines, old bills, empty boxes- it's awful! I'm just calmly taking it one thing at a time, but he keeps saying- I'll do that! I'll take that to work! I'm ready to kill him.
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Posted by: anonymous
2021-07-16 13:24:54
ID: 67447
So, the exciting move I had into my friend's house completely blindsided me when it feel through 2 weeks before I was scheduled to end my lease at my current apartment (7/30 was move day). What were a series of layered miscommunications stacked on top with many triggers really came to its breaking point these last few days. This led to about 4-5 extremely hurtful paragraphs long text threads. The kicker was when I apologized several times early on in the texts, said let's talk about this in-person, but she continued to go off. Ok, stopped engaging because no longer was a conversation back and forth. I was majorly triggered my wounded child who felt defenseless when abused. Right now, I have space and clarity on the issues, but don't even know if I want to repair this friendship even if we've been friends for 17 years. I will be own up and be responsible for my part of the conflict, but she better be damn willing to take care of hers. If she doesn't, then I'm done.
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