Posted by: anonymous

2021-10-21 20:35:37

ID: 67825

Two years until my youngest kid graduates, and I file for divorce. DH is going to be shocked and devastated even though for the past 20 years I've told him how I'm sick of doing damn near everything. We've had the "You should have asked" discussion 100 times. I'm not going to have it 101 times. I'm just going to keep going through the motions until I can move on. He will beg and say he didn't know, he will do better. Nope. You've had 20 years to do better. And I've told you a million times, including during marriage counselling. Bullshit on the I didn't know thing. Unloading the dishwasher twice a month instead of once a month is not really trying or doing better. Already have it worked out how all the money and the house will be split. And I'm not even going to feel bad. If course, he's going to tell people that I blindsided him. And say things like, "Not unloading the dishwasher doesn't make me a bad person." Just two more years...

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Posted by: anonymous

2021-09-02 18:07:50

ID: 67589

can't part 3. Then he asks if I'm in the mood for sex last night. HAHAHAHA! NO! I've tried dealing with his anger issues, control issues, his bad manners, and shit talking mouth. I'm sick of him. I told him I'm not his mother! And people ask him all the time how he got me. He has great qualities, but I told him we're not compatible. I'm the 1st lady he's ever been with who is clean and sober, works, cooks and cleans. He's 55 years old and spent about 16 to 17 years in and out of jail or prison since he was 24. He got sober in 2016. I'm waiting until my house with my ex sells in October and I'm outta here. I've never lived alone. I married at 19 and was with ex til I was 48. I can't do this with bf anymore as much as we love each other. I've reached out to couples counselors to no avail. Bf said he'd go. Men just really suck! Oh, and my sis got engaged the night before they came to see us. Poor things. I felt so bad they had to see bf acting the way he did.

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Posted by: anonymous

2021-08-14 23:14:36

ID: 67575

I had to put my sweet pup to sleep on Thursday. I'm still a bawling mess about it because I miss her so damn much. I feel like I get more attached to my pets than people in my life. I know that's effed up but my pets have always been there with me while most people I know have not been there for me at all when I need them most.

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Posted by: anonymous

2021-07-16 13:24:54

ID: 67447

So, the exciting move I had into my friend's house completely blindsided me when it feel through 2 weeks before I was scheduled to end my lease at my current apartment (7/30 was move day). What were a series of layered miscommunications stacked on top with many triggers really came to its breaking point these last few days. This led to about 4-5 extremely hurtful paragraphs long text threads. The kicker was when I apologized several times early on in the texts, said let's talk about this in-person, but she continued to go off. Ok, stopped engaging because no longer was a conversation back and forth. I was majorly triggered my wounded child who felt defenseless when abused. Right now, I have space and clarity on the issues, but don't even know if I want to repair this friendship even if we've been friends for 17 years. I will be own up and be responsible for my part of the conflict, but she better be damn willing to take care of hers. If she doesn't, then I'm done.

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Posted by: anonymous

2021-06-22 20:44:12

ID: 67337

H has been pushing me away. I've spoken up about it many times, he says nothing is wrong. We're not being intimate, he barely speaks to me some days not at all, he doesn't touch or kiss me, anywhere I sleep he sleeps in a different room. I've walked around in the buff and he pretends not to notice. I even went to him and I put his hand on my butt, he moved it away fast. Last night I told him if this doesn't change then we're headed for divorce. He said he sees no problem and he's not going to change. So I said alright well I guess we should divorce. He said, ok if thats what you want. Today he's been chipper, unusually happy, but still doesn't look or speak to me.

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Posted by: anonymous

2021-06-12 21:26:32

ID: 67246

The guy I have been seeing for a few months told me yesterday to "take care of yourself" and "leave me alone" while we were having a minor disagreement while texting. Now he just tried to call me. No, I didint answer.

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Posted by: anonymous

2021-06-09 03:29:09

ID: 67231

Anyone else have a know-it-all partner? My husband is constantly telling me how to do things or what I should do. One time I was putting the lid back on a jar of pickles, and it got stuck. He instructed me on how to unscrew it and re-screw it. No shit, Sherlock! Another time he lectured me on why I should have taken a different exit from a parking lot! But the worst is when it comes to work. I've had a couple positions in two different fields that need specific licenses/certificates. He knows NOTHING about either one. But anytime I try/tried to talk about something that happened at work, it's, "Well, what you need to do is..." or "You should have done this..." and I ALWAYS have one of two answers - either, "Yes, I did that," or, "No, we're not allowed to do that." It's so frustrating! I'm not a child!

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Posted by: anonymous

2021-04-18 22:46:58

ID: 66996

I asked DH for a divorce and he got so angry. He said he "earned all our money" and won't give me half even though we're a communal property state and I would be entitled to half the assets. I'm halfway tempted to just take a huge withdrawal from his checking account (the moron keeps over $100K in there) and just bounce. I've had it up to here with his laziness and cockiness and how shitty he treats me.

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Posted by: Stormyweather

2021-04-19 14:09:47

ID: 67003

I don't do manipulation. I don't know how people fall for this shit. You're going to kill yourself if I don't continue our relationship that YOU fucked up? Knock yourself out, save me the trouble of divorce. Your choices will never be my fault.

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Posted by: anonymous

2021-03-20 23:45:47

ID: 66806

I found out that my dad, who never comes to visit me 1 and 1/2 hours away, goes down to another state 2 times a month at least to visit with his new wife's family. It's at least a 3 to 4 hour drive and he makes sure he goes with her every other weekend. This hurts my feelings like you would not believe. Guess I'm not special enough to come visit.

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