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Posted by: anonymous
2020-06-21 17:43:06
ID: 64690
In response to a confession. That seems a tad bit dramatic...
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Posted by: anonymous
2020-06-20 12:33:09
ID: 64661
2/2We were very busy while he was home and I didn't get a whole lot done in there but I did straighten it out so the room was usable. I'm also trying to organize some things in the basement, but I'm just so tired from work all the time. Anyway, he was a little weird during the month he was home. Just not very affectionate and almost no sex. He waited until right when he was leaving for the next trip to tell me that he's been upset with me since day 1 about the room and basement, that's why he didn't want me to cook, so I "ruined" his homecoming. Says that I had plenty of time to do all this while he was gone. This is such bullshit. Right before he left the first time, I lost a job AND a loved one, then got a new job that I can't start bc of COVID. But NOOOO it's all about HIM. Then said this marriage isn't working for him anymore. All the shit he's done to me, and it's not working for HIM?! Fuck right off.
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Posted by: anonymous
2020-06-19 06:58:19
ID: 64634
Been with boyfriend 7 months. He's 54. Has no retirement plan from the past. Will be getting one soon. I'm 49 and withdrew my retirement in 2017 because of my ex and our separation. Too long of a story. I'm starting over too since November of last year. My boyfriend has a gambling problem. He sees nothing wrong with spending 400 to 600 a month on penny machines. I do. I'll be coming into about 15,000 dollars soon and another 25 to 30,000 this year from the sale of me and ex's marital home. I want to pay back my retirement I took out, invest, plan for the future. He seems to live moment to moment. We've argued about his gambling before. He used to be an alcoholic and drug user. He finally got clean and sober in 2016 and works a program. But it seems like he quit drugs and alcohol and replaced it with gambling. I love him, but I don't see a future with him. I'm pissed he got off early today and went to the casino. Advice?
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Posted by: anonymous
2020-06-20 06:43:13
ID: 64648
How do I stop giving my boyfriend the silent treatment when he does something that upsets me? I know it's not healthy and I want to learn better ways to communicate.
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Posted by: anonymous
2020-06-11 18:33:03
ID: 64529
I didn't say I'm blowing all the $20,000 I won. We've already saved for some of our Hawaii vacation. I'm paying my stepmom back her $1200.00 I owe her, invest a little and put the rest in a money market account.
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Posted by: anonymous
2020-06-07 19:16:00
ID: 64517
Every single time I say anything that could even remotely be translated to something "dirty", DH says in this obnoxious voice "That's what she said!" ala Michael Scott. It was sort of funny at first but now I just want to punch him in the face every time he says it.
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Posted by: anonymous
2020-06-01 04:09:00
ID: 64367
My boyfriend got me a car under his credit. Mine isn't good because of my divorce and stuff. I had to file bankruptcy 5 years ago because of my alcoholic ex. I'm going to make all the car payments. Do you think it's right for my boyfriend to tell his 2 sisters and all his friends he did this for me? He tells everyone everything and I don't like it. We've had discussions about this before. I'm private. He's not.
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Posted by: anonymous
2020-05-30 22:15:24
ID: 64426
I've been feeling suicidal the last few months. I don't feel like taking care of my health, not eating like I should, losing weight I shouldn't be losing, not interested in doing anything with anyone....just feeling shit. Last night I had a talk with DH and he says he's worried about my health and I said "What's the point of even being alive?" and he said "I really want you to stay here with me". I instantly started bawling. I don't think I always realize how much of an impact offing myself would have. I think this is the kick in the butt I need to get myself back on track and look into some sort of therapy.
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Posted by: anonymous
2020-05-29 19:05:20
ID: 64412
In response to a confession. Sorry....I forgot to allow comments.
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Posted by: anonymous
2020-05-26 03:52:48
ID: 64380
I have gained 25 pounds, and I know it bothers DH. It bothers me too. But DH has a drinking problem and has had one for years. I think I passive aggressively hold onto the weight because he won't stop drinking. Like, I'll lose the weight when you lose the Scotch. He also started smoking cigars again, which I hate. The irony is that he works out every day. And he's kind of smug about it. Any time he mentions anything having to do with working out, I shut him down with something like, "I'm not taking fitness advice from someone who smokes cigars and puts back 50 drinks a week." Immature, I know, but I'm just so fed up with how holier than thou he gets because he runs a 5K every now and then.
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