So Bill and Melinda Gates are getting a divorce. As someone married to a person with Autism, specifically Asperger's, I get it. I totally get it. He's wildly successful and a nice guy, but is just emotionally vacant. Like he just doesn't have the ability to empathize. He will try and go through the motions, but he doesn't genuinely feel it. He will never understand that his actions or words can be insensitive. Half of all these marriages are celibate within 2 years, because physical contact is physically uncomfortable for many Aspies. My husband has a baseline understanding that married people are supposed to have sex, so he schedules it, like a chore. But again, emotions aren't something he really understands, so it's a purely physical, mechanical act. Like having sex with a robot. I see you, Melinda. You tried. You probably do love him and him you. But you don't feel loved. I understand it so well.