Talking about blowjobs with someone I shouldn't be having that conversation with. Now I have an overwhelming desire to unzip his pants and give him some seriously good head. Damn.

speaking for myself, yes, having kids would destroy my life. i'm childfree and have no desire whatsoever to be a mother. now if being a mother is something one wants or is open to then by all means go ahead. i know i would be absolutely miserable if i had a child so i'm not. Some women see motherhood as the ultimate life goal and blessing and that's awesome, but not every woman feels that way.

My SIL IS out of her fucking mind. They are already married, but are spending a fortune on a show wedding. She's refusing to even tell anyone they went to the courthouse because she wants the attention of a wedding ceremony. She went and did tuxedos today. My dh and ds are supposed to be in the sham wedding and so am I. My ds5's tux alone cost 200, and it's a rental! I'm looking at spending approximately $700 just on clothes for a wedding I've no desire to be a part of. I don't want to hurt my brother, but his wife is fucking insane. We've never been on vacation, but were finally able to save up for a cruise. My mom and SIL had the audacity to suggest I cancel my first vacation in 6 years for a stupid mindless shithoe who's bent on a 6-figure wedding. Just no.

I posted earlier about not getting any with the guy I'm seeing. It happened a second night too. Turns out it was because he has low testosterone (I knew this) and hasn't been taking his meds (I did not know this). Also he told me that it affects his desire as well as ability to get aroused. Didn't know that either! He's really sad and apologetic, no matter what I say. I feel for him. And me too! Like the poster below, I really want to get laid! Not sure what to do. Any thoughts?

I am a lesbian, I know I am, yet, I have the deep desire to be fucked as hard as possible by a big dicked guy, my biggest fantasy is to have two dicks in my pussy at the same time, fucking me relentlessly , and then cuming inside me,

I love sex. I think about it all the time. Then, when the time comes with DH, I have no desire. The sexual chemistry is gone and has been for a few years now, despite my attempts to change that. I think for him, he doesn't know any different and sex is sex. Our relationship is really gray otherwise and we have kids, but I need sex and I need good sex. I just can't imagine this bring it forever :(

Everyone is getting on my effing nerves to day. I strongly desire to punch something.

Using the same tactics used by “gay” rights activists, pedophiles have begun to seek similar status arguing their desire for children is a sexual orientation no different than heterosexual or homosexuals.

OMG, CCC, do I have a confession. I am traveling alone. Bought a cute new dress today and swore that I would be open to something. That I am an attractive woman who men might desire. And tonight after dinner, I was walking back to my apartment, and this cute guy passes and says hello. I didn't diss him. I spoke back to him and let him hit on me. Within 5 sentences, he invited me to get a beer. I fought my normal inclination to say no, and just went with it. Within 15 min, his tongue was in my mouth, and within 30 min we were standing on the street, his hard cock pressed against my hip, his hand inching its way up my skirt, and his lips educating me on how to say "I want to lick you everywhere" in his language. Yes, I stopped it. I didn't want him. And I was careful to leave him there and head quickly to my apt alone. But OMG! I am a 41 year old woman, and I have NEVER done that before. It was hot. And confidence-inspiring. And kind of gross. Who AM I right now?!!

I confess that I don't think of my very close colleague and teammate as a friend. I think it would be great if we were friends. I act like we're close, and so does she. She introduced me to an acquaintance as her friend. But I do not consider her a friend of mine. I tried. But I have no real desire to stay in touch with her when we're apart or to hang out in ways that are anything other than dinner parties or happy hours. Sorry, hon.