I'm 22 and I think I am experiencing some kind of bizarre delayed puberty. My boobs went from a 32A to a 32C from the time I was 21 and I have stayed the same weight. I grew 1 and half inches in the past year after being the same height since I was 12. And now, I am getting acne. Not even on hormonal birth control. Wtf? I already went through the whole acceptance of being a really sexy petite woman with barely any boobs and being super short, and now my body's doing all these weird changes!!! Stop it! Stop it! Stop it! Going through awkward adolescence in my 20s....

I don't have much desire to make friends with the people I work with. I have snapped at some of the people i work with because they weren't pulling their weight fairly and expected me to pick up their workload. I guess they thought me, the new girl, could be walked all over. Well I put them in their place so they don't talk to me much and exclude me but they do their fair share of work now and that's all I care about. I'm not going to allow myself to get in trouble with the bosses cause my work isn't done cause I'm having to do their work on top of mine. I don't care if that makes me a bitch. I don't like being taken advantage of. At first I did get in trouble with my boss so I snapped at one of my cw and she started pulling her weight after I snapped at her.

Bf has gained weight (20+ lbs), mainly in his stomach. I've never said anything to him about his weight gain because I didn't want to make him feel bad, besides he knows he's gained weight and jokes about him being a fat guy. I hate it and it does make him look less attractive to me. His kids are the ones that are on him about gaining so much weight because they're concerned about his health (as am I). The other day he asked me why I've never said anything to him about his weight. As if that was a bad thing of me to do. Okay, so now I'm the bad guy for not bugging him about his weight? I said,"well you have mirrors and you buckle your belt every morning. It's not like you didn't know." Geez, i thought i was being kind for not making him feel bad about his body.

I lost about 90 lbs on my own and I didn't do B/A pictures. I didn't like getting my picture taken when I was fat, so there just aren't many pictures of me that big. When I decided to lose weight, I didn't take any before pictures because if I failed, I didn't want to be reminded of how fat I was. I almost should've taken them, though--I don't even look like the same person now.

My friends post their B/A pics and I don't mind. I think it's great that they are proud to have worked so hard to lose the weight and I think for the most part people do feel prettier because they feel better physically and emotionally. I can see how making it seem like 'I'm pretty now' may come across as bitchy, but I've known a few ladies that were bitches before and still stayed bitches after the weight loss.

I wouldn't have an issue with the "before/after" pictures if they were real. Some of them are, but 90% of the ones that pop up on Facebook or wherever are for advertisements for diet pills or gimicky workout programs. They use different people in the before/after, or photoshop the bejesus out of them. I like the ones that come from personal weight loss stories that are honest about how hard it is, but most of them are just deceptive.

Because believe it or not, some people do feel less attractive when they are overweight and they are allowed to make before and after photos to show how they worked their asses off to lose weight! (This is coming from an obese person btw)

DH and I got dressed up to go out yesterday, and then once we got there I fell in a slippery wet patch on the sidewalk. I fell right on my knee, and my cute shoes cut into my big toe. I was so embarrassed, and ruined my shoes. I played it off, but my knee is huge, blue, and completely torn up. Now I have to somehow go to work like this today. I've got it wrapped up, and can barely put weight on it. Great!

Hey, co worker, stop leaning on and jostling my chair when you come over to my desk. I have a bad back from an accident and don't appreciate it. It is not my fault that you are double a healthy weight for your height and cannot stand without support.

When I say chunky I don't mean large, fat, overweight or anything else. Obviously that's not the case I mean thick in the middle (in comparison to the rest of her, not an "average" size woman), in that she has no defined waist: http://healthyceleb.com/wp-content/uploa... As I said already, I think she's very pretty and it's great to see her modelling. But it doesn't change the fact that "curves" is a defined waist/hip/chest ratio and she doesn't have that...oh and celeb "measurements" are fake half the time.