I don't want to cheat on DH, but I would like it if I could have some sex dreams about other men more often. All the fun without the guilt!

My husband is not careless with our son, but lately I have been having dreams that he has dropped him. The latest one was: Husband was carrying baby and tried to hand him to me. I said "I don't want him" and this girl walking a few feet away said she did so he tossed him to her. Well, she did the leg kick thing and punted him back towards my husband who dropped him on his head. In the dream I freaked out and screamed to call 911. Lmao wtf brain?!? WTF?

I have the most vivid dreams every night. And I always dream in color. Always.

I have one big regret and need to find a way to be OK about it. Twenty-five years ago I suspected that our neighbor was molesting his teenage daughters. There were three girls, and all three admitted that it happened. It stopped when they turned 18 (and all three moved out within weeks of their birthdays), but they talked openly with me about what he did. I pleaded with them to go to the police, and all three refused. I still have such horrible guilt over it, even though the girls refused to have him arrested. I actually have dreams that I see their molester and stab him to death!

I lost 55 lbs and have kept it off for over 4 years. A big part of that was getting rid of emotional weight, some of which I worked through with a therapist. But I also started writing down every single thing I thought about food, about my body, about other people's bodies, about sex, about exercise. Everything. Every compliment. Every criticism. Every memory of my obese mom or sister with food. Every food reward. Every food shame. Fears. Dreams. Desires. I wrote it all down. And I think I learned a TON about myself that way and worked through even more. I would recommend it to anyone trying not just to lose weight, but to keep it off. If you can't recognize how you got to whatever weight, then you're not going to be able to maintain the weight loss.

Prescription cough medicine gives me such vivid dreams

Kevin Costner just needs to stop acting already. I never did like him much--the only good thing he was in was "Field of Dreams".

I used to smell fresh cigarette smoke around my house but no smokers lived there. This went on for years. I even had dreams, one was about granny and she had a whole lot of friends with her, sitting around smoking and playing cards. (I never saw her do this in real life and she wasn't a smoker). They asked me how I liked them when I entered the room and I said it was too smoky. Granny laughed and laughed, and I woke up abruptly. When smelling smoke had been going on for 10 yrs, a friend called me and said she'd been to a psychic (who happened to be the son of a Methodist minister). The psychic told the friend to tell me that my house was full of spirits of people who had passed on, and they smoked a lot! I had never shared any of my info with the friend beforehand and didn't know the psychic. They lived 1200 miles from me. I still don't know what to think about this.

At a party last night, a new friend was telling me a funny story that started with "I was having a dream that you and I were going to bed together. Just before we started to get really into it...<funny story>" Now, I know dreams are just dreams, but 1) I really admired that she wasn't embarrassed at all about having a sex dream about me, and 2) I'm ridiculously flattered, since she is smokin' hot. And no, nothing would ever come of it - it was just a dream, and we are both in committed, monogamous relationships.

I'll probably get flamed but oh well. My confession? I still believe in traditional gender roles. I don't, however, believe we are required to conform to them and I would never tell a woman she belongs in the kitchen, not in combat. I do believe most women are geared towards traditional feminine things, but I believe it's more genetic than cultural. Again, I don't think every woman is like that, no should she be (and if I have a daughter I would absolutely encourage her to follow her dreams). I think men and women are equal, but we're different. Studies have shown that our brains DO process stuff differently. Sometimes saying he doesn't understand because he is a man is valid because of the way the male brain processes emotions. Sure, there are men who do better than women, no denying that. Same thing with the physical stuff, men in general are stronger.