I don't have much desire to make friends with the people I work with. I have snapped at some of the people i work with because they weren't pulling their weight fairly and expected me to pick up their workload. I guess they thought me, the new girl, could be walked all over. Well I put them in their place so they don't talk to me much and exclude me but they do their fair share of work now and that's all I care about. I'm not going to allow myself to get in trouble with the bosses cause my work isn't done cause I'm having to do their work on top of mine. I don't care if that makes me a bitch. I don't like being taken advantage of. At first I did get in trouble with my boss so I snapped at one of my cw and she started pulling her weight after I snapped at her.

UGH. . I have no desire to shower, bathe, brush my hair, wear clean clothes..... I just don't have any desire to put in the effort. Its not that I don't want to, I just can't seem to find the willpower.

I've been off FB for 2 years now. A good friend gave me her login to look at our class reunion pics, so I took a little time (with her permission)to look up a bunch of people I knew when I was married...his friends that I never kept in touch with. Boy, it's like I've been living under a rock! The CF ones have had a kid, one guy got divorced and remarried already, and one friend who divorced his wife to marry the 18 year old nanny is divorced now too. It was interesting, but I have no desire to go back on FB!

OP in the LDR in which he "needs space." I've been giving it to him. In some cases, absence makes the heart grow fonder. But in my case, I think I'm done. I'll hear him out if he ever contacts me again, but I think this last string of inconsiderate behavior on his part really killed whatever love and desire I may have had left for him.

I don't understand people who don't/won't cook. I think you owe it to your family to provide actual, edible food for them to eat. We've become so dependent on processed convenience foods that many people lost the ability and desire to cook anymore. It's not like it's rocket science to cook. It does require a little effort, but there are tons of easy, cheap, and healthy recipes out there that absolutely anyone can make.

It really has nothing to do with just "what a man wants". It has to do with trying to attract someone....whether it male, female, trans, gay, straight, bi....whatever sex you are and whatever sex you're into. We all do things to try to attract someone we desire.

I am 42 years old and have no sex drive - nada, zip, nothing. I have no desire to be with my dh or any other person. I have tried looking at porn to get things revved up, but while I'm watching it, I always think, "Why are those people having sex; such a waste of time." Does nothing for me. I don't masturbate anymore or even have any desire to. I've been to the doctor, had all the hormones checked out, and can't find anything wrong. I was never a sex fiend or anything, but I would enjoy it and get a little randy every now and then. But now, I got nothing.

BF has snuck a salad toss a couple times, but I've always managed to squirm away. haha! He said again the other day he wants me to let him do it. I said I'd have to be straight out of the shower after soaping really well up inside. And then maybe I'll even need to be a little buzzed. He already knows I have absolutely no desire to ever lick his. Yuck! No fucking way! For the life of me, I don't understand how anyone could get turned on by doing this.

Not sure how much longer my marriage will last. We have love, respect, trust, loyalty, caring, but there is little to no sex, desire, lust, or passion. I love him, but I need more. There may have been some of this in the beginning, but so much more less now. Perhaps it's circumstantial, as he is unemployed and has ED, but I don't know if our marriage will survive much longer. I want him to have his dream girl, his dream life, and happiness, as he deserves this, and so do I.

Wow, he is just OVERFLOWING with desire to know more about me. Uh, not. Ass.