I’m 5’3, so do not want to lose much. I really wanted to just feel healthier overall, stop sugars cravings, and emotional eating. I would love to tone up and add weight training.

My ex pulled a background check on me without asking first. He found out EVERYTHING about me, credit, employment, health, etc. and a lot about my family, including the drinking problem my Mom had in the 1980's. He found info on one my ex's and HIS family. He even knew that my personality had changed after losing my Mom in a car accident and the at fault driver got off with barely a slap on the wrist due his family being city employees. His reasoning for pulling such an extensive check? "I have to know everything about someone who is going to be around my kids" Just another reason not to date a man with kids. We ended up splitting up because he abusive to me physically, sexually, emotionally, and verbally.

I went to Overeaters Anon support group last for my binge and compulsive overeating which has been spiraling out of control since my breakup this summer. I’ve always had a complicated emotional relationship with food. It feels good to meet other people who are in the same boat! It was so heartwarming. The facilitators were most welcoming. One of them, an older guy, wore a tshirt that said got sushi? Lol like got milk? He was so kind. I’m going to check out more meetings to see which works for me.

We did this personality assessment at work and I found out that I am very much not a people person. Relationships was last in my line of traits and logical thinking was first. All my life I've been told I have to work on my emotional side and how I relate to people. The psychologist who led the assessment told me never to fight my personality but to know that that area is a struggle and just to try to do my best. I feel a lot better for some reason. I've always been told it's a huge fault of mine.

OP here. Definitely don't want to lose weight. I have eczema that I am trying to rid of since I was teen and when I've eaten better it has felt less inflamed. Also, I have depression working on (with therapist). I'm finding other ways to feel better like rehabbing my diet, sleep, exercise, stress routines. But, diet first since I emotionally eat and binge sometimes, too.

My ex husband has borderline personality disorder. He struggles to maintain close relationships, because he's so manipulative and emotionally volatile. He isn't a bad person. He doesn't intend to behave the way he does; he truly can't help it. The real problem is that he refused to get help after being diagnosed. I haven't spoken to him in ten years, but last I heard, he's got no one left, when it comes to friends. Everyone's tapped out. He had access to meds and a good psychotherapist and he refused the help. Sad, really. I just couldn't deal with him anymore.

lol as if anyone ever said they weren't in dire straights because of institutionalized racism and misogyny. I know reading comprehension is hard when you're having a knee jerk, emotional response to someone who disagrees with you on the internet, but try to keep up.

I posted a while back about starting up an emotional affair, then ending it, but the emotions never went away because I still see this guy sometimes where I work. Now, this horrible woman (I’ve always thought she was horrible and he supposedly didn’t care for her either) has basically been stalking him. Now I think he’s going to go for it. I know it’s not my place to care, but I just want to vomit. I might need to look for another job. I love my job, dammit. I am so irrationally angry about this. I know I shouldn’t be. I’m still considering leaving H. Not for this guy, but I’m really unhappy. I guess I thought there was hope for “someday” with this guy. We had talked about it, but I wanted my own place & to just date him. We wanted to do things right. If he goes for this woman though, I will lose respect for him when I’d held him in such high regard. I hope I’m wrong. I just wish I didn’t care and I care so much it’s gutting me.

I miss you all the time. Even while just going through vacation photos, choosing my favorites to print, I remember with tears how you'd sit beside me and not just choose your favorites but also explain your reasons why, in both a technical and an emotional way. Like my photos mattered. Like I mattered. No one does that now. I miss you every day and will until my last day.

Sis bought a condo that doesn't allow more than one pet, so she had her therapist certify her 2 cats as emotional support animals. This is BS. She travels for pleasure at least 2 weeks out of every month and has no need for emotional support animals as she travels the world mostly alone, where you'd think she'd really need emotional support. IMO the people who certify this crap should be stopped.