So I have a fairly passive bf. He knows when to speak up for himself but in certain situations I find myself wanting to take the lead as I don't feel like he's being aggressive enough. This can be as simple as the way he drives or walks, how he presents himself in restaurants - I often get spoken to by the staff since I tend to take the lead, or even researching solutions - I feel he moves to slow. But...in the bedroom, oh man that's another story. He has no problem holding my throat with one hand while he yanks my panties down with the other, throwing me on the bed, spanking, slapping, making me gag on his dick as he dp's me with his fingers til I cum. Yup, I'll take the submissive in public guy if that's what I get in the bedroom.

Just realized I mis-worded my confession earlier. The one about my boyfriend disappearing at parks and restaurants and reappearing with food. He did it when he was a kid, like single digit age. And I meant if my child did that he wouldn't go anywhere without me until he could be trusted not to do that anymore. As far as I know now my boyfriend does not accept food from strangers like that anymore haha.

My boyfriend was JUST telling me about how when he was a kid he would always disappear at restaurants and parks and come back with food. It was a cute story and all, but I don't understand how it was an "always" type of thing. After the first time it happened he wouldnt go anywhere without me until I could trust he wouldn't con/accept food from strangers.

My boss is in Lord of the Manor mode. We are in the middle of a site visit. The restaurant didn't split the checks up the right way. So upsetting! Why isn't this done correctly? My fault. The webcam on the computer didn't work. Oh no! I had to get IT in who fixed it but still so distressing! My fault. There was feedback during the Skype call. Quizzical look. My fault. He's very condescending. Held the door for the attendees then let it slam in my face. I'm imagining jumping on the table, yelling suck it, and heading out the door. Yahooooo!!!!

Recovering bulimic. I haven't binged/purged in a long time, but we just ate dinner at one of my trigger places. I can't even tell you how difficult it is to fight this right now. There are certain restaurants I never eat at because they were go to's in the past for a binge.

2 of my friends posted pics on fb yesterday of pictures drawn on their pizza boxes. The one bragged about how the restaurant has to do whatever you request under special instructions when you order online. I just think its obnoxious.

The new trend of requesting a picture drawn on your pizza box kind of bugs me. I hope the people who work at these places find it amusing. Restaurants are busy enough without having some hipster request a picture of a tiger or an elephant drawn on their pizza box.

it happened to me as a kid on occasion. Then *I* get upset b/c its upsetting to see DS like that, we are out in public, and a happy occasion just came crashing down. And I say something to DH - indicating my displeasure - so he's pissed I am not on his side, leaves the table, then comes back and almost throws the car keys down (I didn't have any), and leaves. I was so embarrassed, and cried the rest of the meal, tried to stop. The rub is, it was a busy restaurant and not brightly lit. If I'd pulled myself together the event would have blown over, but I was embarrassing myself further by crying silently and trying to stop...let DS finish and we left. I don't care a lot what people think, but in this case I did.

Because he travels a lot for work, dh survives on fast/restaurant food, pizza, hot dogs and the like. I eat mostly fresh fruits and vegetables and lean meats. I exercise moderately (and sometimes hard), he doesn't exercise at all. Guess which one of us has high cholesterol? Grrrr!

Dear client: your last accountant was an either an idiot or a cheat. That tax return is a work of fiction. And that's not how we operate. No, the utility bills for your home, your second home, and your kids' homes are NOT to be run through your business. Your company is a restaurant. What- are you growing pot in the back? Only that would pull that kind of wattage. And no, you can't expense a $1200 credit card swipe at a jewelry store. Oh, honey. All this shit's gonna come to a halt or you're gonna have to find someone else. I will not help you cheat. You make money. You owe tax. That's how it works.