I followed a vegan diet for a while but am now I ovo vegetarian. I took a lot of crap for it from the vegan community I was in, even though I raised my own hens. They were some of the most judgemental hypocrites I ever met! Eating eggs was somehow horrible but it was ok to own a huge home they didn't need rather than donating money to more charities. You really want to help people? Stop buying material crap you don't need, donate it! Why buy expensive Keurigs and marble kitchen counters? You could send that to Africa and build a school with the funds, selfish!

My ex really is crazy with diagnosed mental issues and the divorce was because he is a crazy abusive alcoholic. What am I supposed to say when someone truly wants to know? "It just didn't work out?" Because that isn't true.

People that have something to say to me, please say it directly to my face and please don't hide behind anonymous. By doing what you're doing you're becoming what you are accusing me of; being a bully. Calling me a bitch, lowlife, petty, immature, judgmental, pitiful or insecure and saying that you hope my dh leaves me or any of the myriad other names is bullying. I'm not the only one guilty of that and many of you are being sickeningly hypocritical whether you recognize that.

I'm not the most popular girl ever. I never said that. I just feel like if I was truly such an immature, petty, shallow, judgmental, bitter, pitiful bitch then I wouldn't be surrounded with a loving family and friends and my life probably wouldn't as fulfilling and satisfying as it is, don't you think? I make fun of people. Big fucking deal. I'm not some cruel malicious monster. I am uncomfortable with men on what is mostly a forum for women and I was open with my concerns. I don't lie and I'm not a hypocrite.

I'm judgemental, sure. If you're a racist, bigot, rude or hateful, if you neglect your kids or pets, if you steal or wound people emotionally, if you are cruel or reckless with spreading rumors, if you're nasty and bitter. I judge. I'm ok with that.

"I don't judge you if you're critical and judgemental of others but I do pity you." Oh, you really shouldn't. I have a fun job that pays well, I'm in school full time and will eventually have a wonderful and fulfilling career, my dh is super smart and has a well paying job, I have a lot of friends, a close and supportive family, two really cute doggies, a sweet and healthy child, there's really nothing to pity here. Oh, um, I am always running out of clean underwear because dh and I hate doing laundry so sometimes I have to wear his boxer briefs, I guess that's kind of sad and pitiful?

I don't judge you if you're critical and judgemental of others but I do pity you.

I'm guilty of making fun of people's appearances. When someone is wearing something ridiculous or from Abercrombie I totally make fun of them. It's petty and immature. I don't point fun at homeless people or the mentally ill ffs. I actually do volunteer work at SA and at an outreach center for mentally disabled/physically disabled adults and my calling some guy a douche for wearing Ed Hardy or Abercrombie or pointing out a 50 yr old sag bag wearing jewel encrusted and making a snarky comment isn't even in the same realm as making fun of disabled or the homeless. Wtf.

I used to have a mental commentary and judgement of everybody's weight and clothes because my mom raised me by sharing hers. Eventually I saw it as the shallow, bully-like habit it is and started to appreciate how different people are and how interesting they make life. My mom is not an evil person--it all comes from a place of self-consciousness. People who laugh at crocs or obesity or whatever are really trying to convince themselves they're worth something by scrambling to prove they're "better" than someone, anyone, else.

I make fun of people. I'm immature and petty sometimes. I also do volunteer work at SA and at an outreach program for adults that are mentally and physically disabled. I would never make fun of them. I will totally laugh at some lame ass guy wearing an Ed Hardy t-shirt walking around like he's hot stuff. I suffer no guilt laughing at some old sag bag wearing hot pink yoga pants that say JUICY on her old ass.