Ex's reluctance and outright refusal at times to contribute financially to DS' needs was one of the biggest reasons I broke up with him. Since DS is living at home while attending college, support continues until age 23. However, the continuation paperwork was mishandled, support stopped and I had to reopen the case. He hired an atty to try to get out of it, even though it's law. Bc of his job he is seen as an upstanding citizen, but he's just a dirtbag, Case in point: before court he asked DS to provide a paystub from his part-time job. For whatever reason, DS grabbed his biggest-ever, from Christmas when he picked up shifts and got OT. Ex tried to use this to say that DS takes home $200/wk and can basically support himself. Judge disagreed and support continues, with arrears. Poor DS, his own father threw him under the bus. I'm sick to my stomach.