My 1st child was a girl. I thought we'd be so close and it would be easy because I was raised mostly with my mom and sister. The 3 of us are close. I couldn't be more wrong. My 2nd child was a boy and I was so scared I wouldn't know what to do with a boy. Him/20 years old and I are super close, and dd/30 and her dad are close. She's opinionated and always has to be right. She's also driven, hardworking, organized and clean, smart, pretty, thoughtful. My son is quiet, shy, a joker, lazy, not organized, sweet and loving. Ya never know! But I love them both dearly. :)