I am sick and tired of living on other people's terms. First it was my mom dictating my life, and now my husband and kids. And "societal expectations". Fuck all that. I am going to start living on my own terms and doing what I want. I'm tired of being everyone else's personal assistant/sex toy/object to be whatever they need right now. Who does any of that for me? Nobody, that's who. Damn well start being there for myself.

You know what annoys me? When someone says "Remind me to..."[insert task here]. It's like - NO. No, that's YOUR thing to remember. You don't get to just let that waft out of your brain because you've transferred the responsibility of remembering that thing to ME. You've just transferred the responsibility of making sure said task gets done to ME. NO. No. Screw that. Not my circus, not my monkeys. Remind yo' DAMN self.

Sounds an entitled old person

My H is a well known delivery driver in our area. He was pulling into a parking lot today and an older man nearly hit him. That man then got out of his car with a gun and threatened to shoot my husband for not "giving old people the respect they deserve." What the fuck? He also got my husband's phone number off the back of his truck. I'm really concerned. Obvs he called the sheriff, but I doubt they will do much. I hate guns and the South and old people. You don't deserve respect, you earn it.

Just curious about the term "partner" and how it's used. When people say his or her partner do they mean spouse (husband/wife) or a same sex partner? What's wrong with using spouse or husband/wife?

Of course you say jada “emasculated” her husband Will, because you did it to your husband!!

Was the Will Smith slap pre-planned? I could see it going either way.

The only people who buy into the whole bullshit 'money can't buy happiness' adage are people who have never had real money problems. And those people can go eat a bag of dicks. They are so clueless I want to slap all of them. Wanna walk right up on stage and pull a Will Smith.

The old adage, "Money can't buy happiness," is complete bullshit. If I had money, I could leave my husband, and I would be happy as a clam.

I know you can do it! How are you today?