I will never be enough. I'm too different, i never seem to respond or react the way that's expected. I don't fit anywhere. I wish i didn't exist.

Yup. All these mansplainers and douche bags, sexist chauvinistic obnoxious a-holes are not single. The guy that you can't even stand to be in the same room with for more than ten minutes goes home to an actual woman, and chances are she can't stand him either.

I agree so much. I love my husband, I really do. But he mansplains to me all the time. He shoots down my ideas if he thinks he'll have to help me (in other words if he thinks I can't do it without his help, he shoots it down) because he doesn't want to help. He takes advantage of me by never helping with housework. He's a typical American straight white man. And I am 100% serious when I say that I don't think I could find a better one. And my husband is shit. He really is, as far as treating me like an equal. He sucks at it, and he's one of (what I consider) the GOOD ones. They're ALL shit. Every single one of them. It's just what level of shit?

Do you live in a big city and have your own car? I did InstaCart for a while last year, while it was sometimes back breaking work, the pay was decent and sort of stable. But it's a lot of manual labor and I think only lucrative if you live in a big city. But you don't have to interview and chances are high they'll approve you.

My marriage is over and I don't know what to do. I've applied for hundreds of jobs over the last year and can't find anything. Not a single interview. One of my kids absolutely cannot attend public school. I don't have any family or friends. I don't know what to do.

In a mood- Being a straight woman is a complete mind fuck because straight men are the people oppressing you and if that's just your orientation you're pretty much fucked. There are no good ones. I wish we could just send them all to the moon and then blow up the moon.

Yeah, that would be a total dealbreaker for me. I would seriously reevaluate my relationship. He should have alreaedy taken it upon himself to get a vasectomy.

Just curious. Why doesn't he want you to get an IUD? I've had one for about 15 years.. It's the best. I haven't bled or even spotted since. It took about 5 minutes to put in.

H won't have sex with me because my new birth control makes me spotty every day and "how can I go down on you?" Cue pouty face. But he also won't use condoms so I don't have to be on BC, doesn't like the idea of me being out with a hysterectomy or tubal, and doesn't want me to get an IUD. But also doesn't want more kids. So like, i don't even want to have sex with him anyway bc he's being a dick. His stupidity is getting really old. About to throw away half my life here, but I'm over it.

Mental healthcare in th US is a joke. I am currently trying to find a psychiatrist in my major metropolitan area for my daughter. In my entire metro area os 2.3 Million people, there are exactly ZERO psychiatrists who take my insurance and are seeing new patients.