I know a couple that actually did reunite after about 20 yrs apart. They were high school sweethearts that lost touch and found each other again on fb. Both were single again and they started talking and now they're a couple again.

The affair I am having is so fucked up and dysfunctional - I should actually be able to end it and focus on my DH - wowzer this guy is cray-cray and does so many things I dislike - what was I thinking??? Good god!

My DH got so pissed off on Friday and said all sorts of horrific things to me. I guess he said he was frustrated for a long time and let it all build up. Now he's being all nice and apologetic. I wish he would just tell me when he's upset and not hold it in for so long.

DH was so pissy yesterday. It turned into a deep tearful conversation between us, followed by great sex last night and this morning. We need to do that more often. Like letting ourselves be vulnerable took sex to such a deeper connection.

Depends on where you live too. I am in a community property state. I am automatically entitled to half of everything, even if my name isn't on it. I have copies of all the account statements. So if my DH did decide he was tired of marriage, he would still be obligated to pay me half of everything in the accounts. If I tried to take money out of them, I would have proof, and the court would not only give me half, but most likely penalize him for taking money that was legally mine. I know people who have had this happen, and their husband's were the ones who got screwed.

Having your name on everything doesn't mean you can't get screwed in a divorce. Just don't get too comfortable thinking you're all set if hubby gets tired of marriage.

I was with an elderly relative today when we ran into an old friend of mine. I introduced them, and my relative asked if he goes by Rich or Dick. He said it doesn't matter, and she said 'you look like a Dick.' We laughed so hard, and she couldn't understand what was so funny.

If anyone saw Dr. Phil yesterday, the jerkoff that they had on that show is a lot like my DH. As Dr. Phil said: "Wow, do you know how much fun you are to live with?" My DH can be a really tightlaced prick about things like money.

Dh is a BIG dick that has a tiny dick!

I still wonder if my hs BF of 7 years was "the one"..I've been happily married to someone else for 15 years but I still think/have dreams about this ex. He lives across the country and have had no contact at all with him. I tell myself if we truly are soulmates and its meant to be then the universe will reunite us someday...