Have you considered that maybe he’s cheating? Sorry, it that was the first thing that came to mind.

H has been pushing me away. I've spoken up about it many times, he says nothing is wrong. We're not being intimate, he barely speaks to me some days not at all, he doesn't touch or kiss me, anywhere I sleep he sleeps in a different room. I've walked around in the buff and he pretends not to notice. I even went to him and I put his hand on my butt, he moved it away fast. Last night I told him if this doesn't change then we're headed for divorce. He said he sees no problem and he's not going to change. So I said alright well I guess we should divorce. He said, ok if thats what you want. Today he's been chipper, unusually happy, but still doesn't look or speak to me.

Planning a road trip this summer with my dear friend about 3 weeks! I've never done a long trip before. We plan to camp overnight at parks and do AirBnb. If you have done a long road trip before, do you have any tips? Thanks in advance! :)

God, my DH does this too. And it's like, yeah dude---I could call you out EVERY fucking time you don't make the bed like I ask or leave dirty dishes on the couch or piss on the toilet seat but I don't. Yet when I back out of the driveway: "You should really back out and then pull forward so you aren't backing onto the road" or "You shouldn't run the vacuum when the dirt cup is full" or "You put my jeans in the dryer again and they shrank!" I swear, it's the absolute most annoying thing about him.

So get this. I was on a work trip and was supposed to come home on Sunday night. When I was able to check my phone, there was a text from DH saying he'd made dinner for me - Manwiches and tater tots. WTF. Not only is that disgusting and fattening, but I've told him countless times that I HATE Manwiches. Fortunately I didn't have to eat that because my trip got extended two days. But what did I come home to for dinner last night? Various sandwiches from the Italian place (cheesesteaks and cutlets with cheese), fries covered in cheeze wiz and jalapeno poppers. This from a man who literally expects gourmet meals when HE comes home from work trips. Last week I made him grilled salmon, shrimp scampi and fresh green beans. And this is the slop I get because he wants me to be heavy. Trust me, he can cook good, healthy meals, he just has an agenda.

I'm really getting sick of the friendships where you end up doing all the work. I've always been the one to coordinat Zoom calls and plans to hang out with friends that just show up (always late) and it's really irking me. One friend suggested we catch-up, I gave her my availability and now she wants me to decide on the place and what time. She says she's exhausted. I'm exhausted, too, so I pushed back and said that have no capacity to plan or organize anything with work ending in a week. I would love it for she took charge on these plans for once since I've done that about 99% of the time. Time to set some boundaries.

My DH likes to point out every little thing I do wrong, like not pulling the door all the way shut while I'm outside and letting out the cool air. Or leaving the lights on in the bathroom in the morning while I'm in the kitchen getting more coffee. Dumb stuff like that. He never lets anything slide, he points our EVERYTHING. I don't do this to him, I think it's pointless and a little mean. But the other day I snapped. He did it again with the door. I went outside to get the food off the grill and and I knew I'd have my hands full of dishes so I lightly pulled the door shut so I could just push it open. He pointed it out. I said, "You know, I don't do that shit to you." to which he replied "That's because I don't do that stuff."... "You leave the light on in the bedroom almost every morning and I've pulled this door shut more times than I can count! I'm just not an ass hole about it!" And he actually apologized! We'll see how long he can refrain from this dickish behavior, though.

My ex would say hurtful things to me, then say later on, " I am sorry, I can't help it, I am learning disabled"

A good reply….’and I’m sorry you’re such a dick.’ Geez!

DH just came in here and said, "I'm sorry you were hurt by what I said." NOPE! TRY AGAIN! LOL!