When I was 20, my fiance (he was 25) of 2 years left me for a 17yr old we worked with and he had been cheating on me with. I ended up losing 30lbs in a month from not eating. I drank water. I got a double quarter pounder from McD's, it took me a couple days to finish eating it. I could only take a bite every so often. I had to slowly work my way back to eating more. Another time I lost weight was about 6 years ago. We thought I was having allergic reactions to a food, but didn't know what (after months, we found out they were panic attacks), so I lost over 20lbs from not really eating anything except bagged pretzels and water. This is when my Uncles gf decided to worry my father by telling him I'm making myself sick by purposely starving myself to lose weight, causing him to panic.

My favorite saying regarding my lost love is "what's meant to be will always find a way."

One day I hope we can sit under the stars and the moonlight, drinking cold beer and listening to Led Zeppelin, and just enjoy being together.

50lbs poster here. DH and I each have a tummy to lose. I think the two of them together keep us from enjoying sex the way we like.

My dh has awful, more like non-existent, communication skills. It was like this before we got married and now 15 years later I think it's going to bite me in the ass.

I am loving all these confessions about reuniting with lost loves. Interesting. It's making me think more about the one that got away in my own life.

Whats wrong with me/men/life in general?

I lost about 45 lbs a few years back and yes it did make a difference. Not necessarily in how the sex itself felt, but in my self-confidence and just being naked. I personally just didn't feel sexy in my body carrying around that extra weight on my small frame.

I've wondered about this on occasion. If you're heavy, then you lose weight, is sex better for you? I mean, all other factors remaining equal, does it make a difference?

My XDH has ruined my credit.