DH was such an asshole to me last night that I couldn't sleep. This morning I spilled water on myself and he asked if I wanted him to lick it off me. Um, no. How about you go lick a vat of acid. Are men really this dumb?

If it's so awful why can't you divorce him? What if he doesn't die for 50 more years? Then your life is miserable and wasted with a man you hate.

I'm also pining away for my first love. 20 years later..what is wrong with us op??

Sometimes I wish my dh would cheat on me so I'd have a legit reason for leaving without looking like the asshole. I still love him but it's more of a friend/roommate type love. Not romantic.

DH, I hate you. Please die soon so I can be free.

Op here. I guess his bro didn't know if I was still married. I'm very private on fb, more of a lurker and commenter. I never post pics and dont really go on there much anyway. This is just messing with my head. I know he meant it as a meaningless comment, we did have about an hr long conversation about music and just catching up in general and he didn't mention the ex again. Noone knows I still think about him always. I need to grow up and move on with my life, I know. But I can't help it. He was my 1st love for years and knowing he still has feelings too makes it hard.

I was madly in love with my hs BF for 7 years. Things ended, he moved across the country, I got married & had kids. I think of him alot still and he pops up in my dreams sometimes.not sure if I ever got over him. We have not spoken in 15 yrs. last nite his step-bro who's a fb friend, messaged me asking if I was on good terms with ex.I asked why. He said ex told him that I was the one that got away. I was floored. I didn't think ex even still thought of me too. Step bro didn't know if I was married or what my situation was. Now I'm thinking of ex even more.I'm not going to open any doors by friend requesting ex, who is on fb too. Just makes me question some of my life decisions. I've been married 14 yrs.

Dh's knee surgery went well and I'm staying on top of his pain management. My in laws came yesterday afternoon and it is seriously stressful. Dh now can see how this was a bad idea, but it's too late now.

I think I need to have a nice little cry, a nap, then some hot tea. The crying will let me let go of some of the anger/frustration I have welling up, a nap will revive me physically and hot tea will be refreshing. Then I can get down to my business.

I feel just fine about myself. Maybe I worded that in a confusing way. Being told I'm sexy and desirable is foreplay, it turns me on. It makes me feel erotic and sexual to be sexually desired and to be told that in words not just actions. Do I have to kiss myself and lick my own clitoris too?