My DH and I are happy AND horny. But we both need to lose about 50 pounds for sex to be way better.

My situation is that I'm married, for now. Not sure about my future with dh. My old hs bf lives across the country but is single and would reunite in a heartbeat. I'm not saying it would ever happen, even if I get a divorce, but it's a nice daydream, reminiscing about him and our passionate first love. All the 80s hairbands ballads remind me of him, so if nothing else it's sweet memories.

Most of those 'blasts from the past' are better left to memory.

I remember thinking how CRAZY it was that my friend ended up reuniting with her childhood sweetheart when she was in her early 50s. It just seemed so unreal, especially since she remained single for 16 years after her divorce. Then it happened to me. My love from my late teens came back into my life when I was 43. We're from different parts of the country but somehow ended up in the same state, not far from each other. Married almost 5 years now :)

My DH admitted to me the other day that he thinks I'm smarter than he is. I bet that's why he is sometimes such an ass to me.

I think some people can reunite with "the one that got away " My old cw hooked back up with a guy she dated in her teens, but not until they were in their 50s. And last I heard they were still happy. But I think this is more the exception to the rule.

I was so miserable in my marriage that when a character in one of the shows I watched lost her husband I was jealous. And then when he left me I missed him and was so sad that my marriage was done that I cried pretty much any time I was home and I knew ds wouldn't know (he was asleep, or I was in the shower, or he was with someone else)... for about 2 days. And then I realized all this freedom not having him around gave me. I started enjoying myself. I realized him and his negativity had been dragging me into depression for years. I wish I had had the ability to leave first. But I'm still insanely happy we aren't together anymore. Please don't waste anymore time with him if you're just waiting for him to die. You don't deserve to spend any more time unhappy because of him.

I have one old bf that I daydream about. Wonder "what if he never lost interest" but I know it would have never worked out. I briefly dated someone else I had kind had "unfinished business" with. Lots of chemistry together but never dated before I got married and eventually divorced. It fizzled fast and now we aren't even friends anymore. We had both changed so much in the 10 years we were apart that it was like dating Tom and expecting him to be Jack. But I'll stick to my daydreams about this other guy. It's a nice escape some days.

This totally. Had lunch with my hs bf and the situation quickly took a turn for the weirdly ugly. Tattoos with my name were revealed. A plan to leave a wife and move in with me was revealed. No, I didn't sleep with him, didn't even kiss him, what a nightmare and I'll never speak to him again. You can't go back although it seems many people try. I hope he found peace with his life.

Who ever said it was simple?? Just because its hard doesn't mean it can't be done.