Honestly, I'd be pissed if my DH picked his ex wife over me. I can completely understand why she's upset. I hope you can too.

It turns out that my ex's gf made her relationship status not visible because she's mad at him. He travels for work, he got a 4 day weekend and was able to come home. She is on vacation with her family and wanted my ex to drive where they are to spend his 4 days with her. I had a major appliance crap out on me and was going to cost $700 to pay for someone to install it. I can't afford that. I put my pride aside and asked him to install it (since he's over 5k behind in support and knows how to install it). I had no idea that he was giving up vacation time with his gf to help me. She is beyond steaming.

My DH interrupts me all the time. Next time he tries it, I'm going to say "I'm SPEAKING!" in my best Judge Judy voice.

My ex-husband tells everyone that I cheated on him. He makes women feel bad for him and pulls them into his dysfunctional life. I have a feeling a lot of people do this, actually. Playing the victim is such an easy way to get attention.

My ex told his gf lies about me,I know some of them. He has her convinced that he left me & I want him back. I left him years ago & have been in a relationship with someone else for years. He did the same to me when we were dating, saying his exgf wanted him back despite her having been in a relationship with someone else for years. A while back he was here visiting our kid, I got ticked off cuz he wasn't spending time with our kid, he was outside on the phone with his gf the whole time. I eavesdropped for a minute & got ticked off that he was lying to her about me.I make myself noticed, he put his phone on speaker and she yells at me to "move on" and "get over him". I laughed & tried to tell her what she was getting into with a liar/anger issues/financially dumb/dirty hoarder. She thought she won a prize. Now she changed her relationship status to not visible. I'm sure she's starting to see the real him, especially since the deadbeat hasn't asked to see or talk to our kid in 5 months.

Did you not notice his face paced way before moving in with him or if you are married before you married him?

I love my DH a lot, but I think I might be one of those people who isn't cut out to be married. I love doing things alone. DH is nice to have around and I like having sex, but I won't mind too much when he dies. I will be a perfectly happy widow. I don't want to divorce him because that would devastate him and I think he needs my companionship more than I need his.

I am kinda like that. I do a lot of mindfulness practice. It helps me a lot.

After being in relationships for 30 years, no breaks, I have taken 3 years off. And honestly? At 48, I'm thinking of staying single the rest of my life. I make a decent income, have insurance and retirement savings, a cute perfectly small place to live, pets, wonderful family and friends, lots of books to read. I kinda feel like I should want to get married again but I am really enjoying my life right now.

Horrible horrible exbf has gotten married to the woman I think he was seeing or grooming while we were dating. All I can feel is badly for her and her kids. She's really in for hell now, but she thinks she's got a prize. Nothing could be farther from the truth.