I don't ask people personal questions, like ever. I figure if you want me to know, you'll tell me. If you come in with a cast on your arm, I'm not going to ask you what happened. If you tell me your spouse passed away (something I would need to know at my job) I'm not going to ask you what happened. (I will, however, say I'm sorry to hear that or sorry for your loss). I am just not that kind of person that's going to ask questions of get involved in the least. Even with friends, I don't do it. If you want me to know, you have to tell me. If you start the conversation with me, I will ask appropriate questions and I do actually care and I am a good listener. I just don't pry. Ever. So now I do have a question: Does this make me some sort of anti-social freak? Am I an ass hole here for this?