OMG I feel this. H brings home $5300-6000+/mo, which includes $1000 for meal allowance. The bills he's responsible for (mortgage and car payment) come to $2200, and then he has some credit card debt he pays each month. I make considerably less, but pay the utilities, car insurance, my phone (his is company-issued so no bill), my credit cards, groceries, toiletries, pet food, Netflix, Hulu and Peacock. Somehow I'm able to put money in savings, mostly for my child's college tuition. He currently has less than $600 in checking, and $21 in his savings. Earlier this month his schedule got messed up and he didn't work for almost two weeks. And he's stressed and angry that his check is going to be low and might not be able to pay the mortgage. I have no sympathy and am tired of bailing him out.