Posted by: anonymous
2021-04-09 17:59:09
ID: 66950
In response to a confession. That would be a red flag to me. I've never been on a date in my entire life where the guy paid cash.
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Posted by: anonymous
2021-04-06 02:22:03
ID: 66921
In response to a confession. Nah, I don't think so. I still like to pay cash a lot of the time too. Just because I like to know that I'm paying it off right then and there. Not putting it on a credit card, debit, etc. Now if he's paying in all $1's, that might be another story... Lol
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Posted by: Stormyweather
2021-04-05 23:41:29
ID: 66919
Got a question for y'all. I met someone on line and we have been out 3 times. All very nice, I enjoyed myself and was comfortable. Usually, or at least in the past, I have spent too much time wondering if they liked me, etc. I have google stalked him and everything he says checks out. He says he's divorced and the limited info we have shared is plausible, normal. we text regularly. My question is, on each date he paid cash for everything. is this a red flag?
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Posted by: anonymous
2021-04-05 22:45:30
ID: 66917
Just for fun I went on a singles website to see what kind of men are out there. It just reinforces it in my head that I will never, EVER get married ever again.
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Posted by: anonymous
2021-04-05 22:41:35
ID: 66915
In response to a confession. I am like this too...very much a people-pleaser. I always felt like I wasn't good enough and felt I had to earn people's liking me. So I was always very task oriented as my mom seemed to appreciate it when I did stuff for her around the house. Now, I always feel like people are going to hate me unless I do a lot for them and am "useful" to them somehow. I'm also working on it with a therapist but one thing she has helped me realize is that people truly do value your inherent presence. I know it's hard to wrap your head around but it's true *hugs*.
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Posted by: anonymous
2021-04-04 21:19:29
ID: 66823
I have anxious attachment style. I feel depressed and sad almost all the time. The voices in my head tell me I'm fat, not good enough etc. I've been this way since I was little. I hope my Psychiatrist can help me. It really is effecting my relationship with my boyfriend who is so good to me. Have any of you ever felt this way? What helped you?
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Posted by: anonymous
2021-04-04 21:17:31
ID: 66839
In response to a confession. This reminds me of my friend and her husband. He told her that no man wants a gray wife, even though he's walking around with his own gray hair, paunchy belly, and wrinkled face. This woman is so insecure already. She's had a tummy tuck, breast implants, a butt lift, and multiple other procedures, while he's out there looking like a chubby old man. I wish she'd leave him.
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Posted by: anonymous
2021-04-04 21:13:48
ID: 66883
My love language is acts of service. Ironic. Because DH doesn't do jack didley shit around the house.
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Posted by: anonymous
2021-04-04 21:12:29
ID: 66904
Been with my boyfriend a year and a half. Just found out today the landlord is selling our home. :( We're going to try to buy a home, but in the mean time, can you say a prayer that we find something if we can't buy a home? Thank you.
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Posted by: anonymous
2021-03-30 19:45:20
ID: 66884
I’ve been with DH for a very long time. Never has he ever done anything (painting, plumbing, carpentry, putting in vanities, doors, building decks, porches, wheelchair ramps....) without having to send me to a hardware store. Three days ago he asked his friend to help build a new porch. I made it a point to ask if he had everything he needed, and as usual, he looks at me like I’ve got two heads. Well, today I made an ass of myself. They ran out of deck screws and he asked me to go get more. Never mind I was in the middle of my own project! I went, but by the time I got back I was livid! I gave him the screws and said this was the last time. I admit I kind of went overboard, especially with his friend here, but enough is enough! They just left to go get more lumber, but I have a feeling there may be a beer stop, too.
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