I'm having terrible crush on my hot mother in law. I got married three years back. Me and my wife had wonderful time. We had lot of sex and fun in first year. Then slowly she is defending herself in intercourse. And she isn't enjoying it much now. Earlier we use to have almost everyday once. Merely leaving a single day in a week. And now I'm having it once a week. These days we r visiting my in laws frequently. My wife is beautiful, no doubt she totally a copy of her mother. But recently I have spent many days with my in laws due to my father in law's health issues. My wife has to take care of my kid, so she stayed home and I was filling their needs when father in law was in hospital and further. These days I was staying with them. I wasn't notice much, but slowly I got weird dreams of my mother in law. I use to be very Frank and funny around everyone to make their happy faces. But then making that lady happier makes me satisfied. They have very small house. (1/2)

I am no longer interested in someone that choses to not get vaccinated. Moving on!

Effort from both parties in a marriage is what keeps the love alive. My exH & my DH are both military, but different jobs. My exH's job involved having lots of free time on his hands where DH's job he's constantly busy. With my ExH, other wives texted with their H's through the day, whereas when I texted mine I didn't get replies. He made me feel like I was bothering him. I also found out he talked crap about me all the time. We were only together 5yrs total. I left him, he begged for me back, no idea why since he hated me so much. Current DH, together 9 years, texts me back no matter how busy he is, sometimes he'll call me just to hear my voice, sends me funny pictures and videos. He brags about me to his buddies.

I'm in a community property state, which is basically just what you said. Each person gets 50% of everything earned during the marriage (house retirement, etc). But that doesn't mean a woman has liquid cash lying around. You can't rent an apartment with a promise that you'll pay in 6 months when youor divorce is final or your house sells. And the rates of divorce aren't any lower in those states.

I don’t think women should have to save up to get a divorce. That is some bullshit right there. Imagine if every breadwinner man had a prenup that divided assets in half from day 1. Wouldn’t he be much better behaved then, knowing that his wife could leave and take half at any time, if she didnt feel like putting up with his shit? It would also make him much more careful about who he marries. I’m not saying this in a condemning way. I’m saying this as a woman who refused a prenup and then got trapped with a man who behaved like a jackass for over a decade and I couldn’t leave because he was the breadwinner.

Our apartments are no smoking allowed inside the units. The landlord said we can smoke on our patio if the neighbors don't complain, so I do. I just had to call the office because my upstairs neighbor smokes weed and cigarettes in his apartment and it seeps into my apartment. I hate it even though I smoke cigarettes. I hope I didn't open a can of worms. I've tried making small talk with them, but they don't speak. I didn't know what else to do. I've also had this weird feeling since living here that I'm being watched or listened to by them. Whatever room I go too, I hear their foot steps above going to the same room. It's weird and creepy. Sometimes I'll say out loud, "Are you listening and watching me again?" Then it's complete silence.

He asked to talk on the phone at around noon, I agreed then didn't hear back for about 8pm. I assumed it wasn't going to happen and think a part of me was okay and wanted to be disappointment so that I wouldn't still be emotionally invested. And, I've felt disappointment by guys in the past so know this well. H's a man of his words and we had a wonderful, lovely, laugher-filled 1-hr call with some deep moments. I even had a breakthrough during the call about how I handle my trauma response when it comes to fawning. This guy is leaving me speechless

My husband just called to ask if I mind if he donates money to the clerk at the local hardware store because she wants to take a stray kitten to the vet. The kitten has been living in the hardware, where she just showed up one day. The store already had a resident cat. But the kitten has stopped eating and needs to go to the vet asap. I think she should name the kitten Americus.

My boss approached my out of the blue to tell me how awesome I am and tell me that she wants to ensure I don't ever leave. I actually really like my job, so wasn't considering it, but OK. She is submitting the paperwork to have my job title changed, so that she can justify the 50% raise she will be giving me. Holy shit! I'll be doing the same thing, just more money and different official title. I've only been here a year. I haven't told my DH. I'm waiting until it's official. Then I'm going to tell him to take his patronizing, passive agressive comments about me not having a real job (I work in cybersecurity for the federal gov't), not having a real degree (I have a BA), and not going to a real college (I went to a state univ that he doesn't consider the same level as the state univ he went to) and shove them up his ass. And the pay increase will be enough for me to divorce him. Queue the apologies and begging me to stay. Hahaha. Nope.

It's been two months since we met and what a hugely positive impact it's all been. Lately he's expressing how much fun our chats are and too bad I don't live closer. While talking briefly tonight he asked to talk on the phone tomorrow AM. I had AM plans then he casually suggested another time. Suddenly, I got nervous and awkward. Ugh, it's easier for me to text than talk.